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No Trick or Treat signs?

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NfkDumpling Wed 24-Oct-18 19:05:17

I think that’s the norm now in most areas Chewbacca.

Chewbacca Wed 24-Oct-18 19:02:15

The unwritten rule around here is "if there aren't any lanterns, pumpkins or obvious invitations, walk past and don't knock". And to be fair, the vast majority of kids around here honour that.

Daddima Wed 24-Oct-18 16:02:22

We live in a wee village, and the children all go out together, accompanied by an adult or two, ( who know which doors to knock!)

I should like a poster saying, ‘ No Trick or Treaters Please, but Guisers Very Welcome’!

BlueBelle Wed 24-Oct-18 15:51:42

I never get knocked if I don’t put a light outside

lemongrove Wed 24-Oct-18 15:41:34

I once opened the door on Halloween, when we lived in a tiny hamlet ( so knew the children) to see the sweetest sight ever, a small fat pumpkin and a tiny tiny ghost, the pumpkin being about 4 years old and the ghost 2 years old.
They were hoping to see a scared expression, not mine ...of delight!?

lemongrove Wed 24-Oct-18 15:37:56

Our village uses the unspoken rule of children only calling at houses with some Halloween bits and bobs outside.
We are a bit out of the way, so never have any children call anyway.
If you live in a town or suburb and don’t want callers keep the front of the house dark? I always think the signs saying no trick or treat in a window may annoy callers enough to do a trick!

Nonnie Wed 24-Oct-18 15:31:32

Grannyg13 I think that is the way it should be so that children clearly know where they are welcome and avoid houses where there is no obvious invitation.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 24-Oct-18 14:17:13

In our area if you have a lit pumpkin in the window or drive the children knock. ??????

paddyann Wed 24-Oct-18 14:14:33

well Nonnie we knew if the door wasn't answered we moved onto th next house.Its the same now I watch the kids go across the street and a lot of the new families( mainly English people who like some here didn't have a Halloween tradition) dont answer the door .The kids happily move on,theres no throwing eggs or being obnoxious .The gloshes as we call them is just a bit of fun been that way for centuries in Scotland

Nonnie Wed 24-Oct-18 14:04:37

Interesting 2 very different viewpoints, one thinks it is all normal and the other doesn't like it .

I would be interested to know what message you all think this is sending to children. I think we probably all agree that it can be frightening for vulnerable people so shouldn't we be instilling that in children?

ninathenana Wed 24-Oct-18 13:48:13

smile added to this as an after thought now realise it dosen't read well. Sorry.

ninathenana Wed 24-Oct-18 13:46:28

I never went trick or treating and neither did my children.
Fortunately despite living here 30 + yrs we have never had any callers. I wouldn't answer the door anyway as I don't agree with the whole thing. Probably because we are on the very edge of town.

paddyann Wed 24-Oct-18 12:57:16

Children here have always knocked on everyone's doors .We always did but knew to never go into a house on our own ,fine with a crowd of guisers though.I make up my bags of goodies the night before and most of the kids will tell me their joke or sing their song on the doorstep or inside the porch,take their bag and leave with a smile on their wee faces .Some are happy to come in if its a longer piece or needs space .Simple common sense usually works but I would never want my kids to feel everyone they meet is a danger to them .The vast majority of people are good...even in 2018 .

EllanVannin Wed 24-Oct-18 12:21:48

Unless with an adult children shouldn't be knocking on any doors.

Nonnie Wed 24-Oct-18 11:21:22

Our local police have produced a No Trick or Treat card which they suggest we download and put in our window to discourage this practice if we wish to. I think it is sending out the wrong message, telling children that it is OK to knock on the doors of people they don't know unless they have expressly said not to.

Surely we should be telling children they should only knock on the doors of houses where there is a pumpkin or other sign of participation?

Is this another sign that children should be encouraged to think they have rights where they don't or am I being a killjoy?