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Rufussmum Sun 30-Sept-18 07:31:44

I wonder if others on here were, or still are, users of Mumsnet? I recently joined GN after mooching about on MN for a few years. I wonder if there is a 'graduation day' or age when people feel more at home on here.
Dare I say it, but there is a calmer, more rational tone to most of the Forum posts (even AIBU). And all that hard-won wisdom on tap grin.

Maggiemaybe Fri 05-Oct-18 10:08:44

MN can be very informative. For example, my family’s experiences have shown me how different giving birth on the NHS is for young mums now, but the reports I’ve read on MN have truly shocked me. I hadn’t realised just how bad things were in many areas.

Rufus2 Mon 08-Oct-18 10:20:00

I've already got one. Think again.
Rufussmum: Dear Mum! How's that? "Mater" seems a bit pretentious and we are rather proud of our M/C working-class roots. We haven't forgotten you! Thought you'd jump at the chance of another state-of the-art scooter for your place in the country; saves having to heave the present one in and out of your RangeRover each time you visit. grin
Still thinking; Bye Mum.

sassenach512 Mon 08-Oct-18 10:55:47

Rufussmum/Rufus2 love it you two, I've had such a laugh with your posts gringringrin

JenniferEccles Mon 08-Oct-18 11:07:12

Another one here who has 'graduated' !

I started looking at MN posts after reading about it in our paper. Yes it can be informative and interesting, but what really shocked me was the incessant use of foul language.
Some have even got the f word as their username.

It is especially bad on the Relationship and AIBU threads. So many of these young women seemed completely unable to express their thoughts without resorting to abusive language.

What really shocked me was the thought that these are young mothers, possibly with children looking over their shoulder as they post comments.

I can remember a time not that long ago when no decent man would swear in front of a woman.

Boy, how times have changed.

Rufus2 Mon 08-Oct-18 14:03:05

no decent man would swear in front of a woman.
Although the converse was not necessarily true! grin
Welcome to Gransnet Jennifer! Hope you have a sense of humour and come armed with some good ones.
FYI; Our family came to Melbourne 47 years ago and love it. "f" stands for funny here, although being a hybrid of Brit/OZ, my sense of humour sometimes gets people confused, but it's always good clean fun. smile
Btw; I'm one of those "decent men" you refer to, but there aren't many of us left unfortunately; a dying-out species.! sad
Have a fab time!

Rufussmum Tue 16-Oct-18 21:03:45

I seem to have mislaid an offspring. Whatever happened to baby Rufus1? Hope there aren't Rufus3/4/5 etc waiting to crawl out of the woodwork.

Rufus2 Wed 17-Oct-18 13:51:42

I seem to have mislaid an offspring
Rufussmum; I'm so relieved Mum! I thought you'd abandoned me again! Don't worry! It's natural to imagine things as you age; after all 118 years must be when memories fade and rest assured you haven't any more in the woodwork or pipeline. I would have thought finding that you now had 5 GGCs in OZ would be enough for the time being. shock
Still thinking about your "no-expense-spared" birthday present; you haven't changed much over the years have you? Always difficult to buy for; if we asked what you'd like it was "a surprise; and "nothing" won't be a surprise" We'll keep trying; how about a trip in a hot-air balloon or a parachute jump? Just a thought! grin
Keep in touch Mum. Love you! Your devoted son Rufus2 wine wine

Rufussmum Wed 17-Oct-18 19:21:54

You've convinced me! I'm on my way. Send me your address and get my room ready. Am looking forward to spending the rest of my life in the bosom of my family. Will forward you a list of my dietary needs. Will need a nice quiet room with a sea view. And a car for my personal use. And I won't be available for baby-sitting. Your ever loving Mum. XXXX

Jalima1108 Wed 17-Oct-18 19:52:46

I think we should have some graduation ceremonies - complete with cupcake afterwards!

JenniferEccles Thu 18-Oct-18 11:50:57

Jalima1108 Yes! I like the look of the cupcakes.

Anything but the awful donuts produced by the Apprentice contestants last night!!

Rufus2 Thu 18-Oct-18 12:27:41

Yes! I like the look of the cupcakes
Jennifer; I welcomed you to GN a little while back, hoping you were graduating with some jokes and then you disappeared! Are you planning to move in with me along with my Mum, only Jalima will need to know how many cupcakes to make; do you like Shiraz? wink

Jalima1108 Thu 18-Oct-18 15:30:00

I turned it off JenniferEccles (is this the future?)
We could have Eccles cakes (yum)

only Jalima will need to know how many cupcakes to make;
Cupcakes? Make? shock

I'll make a fruit cake insteadsmile

Rufus2 Fri 19-Oct-18 09:58:30

Rufus2 Fri 19-Oct-18 09:36:46
I turned it off JenniferEccles (is this the future?)
Jalima; Naughty girl! wink Have you jumped the gun and been at the Shiraz already? You posted mid-afternoon. Perhaps you'd had another hard day's shopping! I can't work out what point you're trying to make; not cupcakes?
Our No.2 supermarket chain is advertising DIY cup cake mixture; looks easy, so I might give it a go. Wish me luck

Rufus, you idiot! You posted this somehow on the Technology thread, sad
Making cupcakes is hardly rocket science!

JenniferEccles Fri 19-Oct-18 12:45:00

Do I like Shiraz? No sorry. Besides, tea would go so much better with cupcakes, wouldn't it?

Rufus2 Fri 19-Oct-18 13:31:06

Besides, tea would go so much better with cupcakes, wouldn't it?
True! Except that we haven't got any cupcakes yet, but we have plenty of Shiraz! confused Anyway, Jalima promised to provide fruitcake which goes better with sherry so I'm told, To be on the safe side I'll lay on tea (Earl Grey?); sherries (dry, medium, sweet), Shiraz and a few pkts. of crisps. That should take care of all bases. grin Cheers!

Jalima1108 Fri 19-Oct-18 20:00:43

I'm just not very good at making cupcakes and don't like all that icing.
However - I can managed an Australian boiled fruit cake!

(And I prefer a nice dry Australian Riesling too).

Jalima1108 Fri 19-Oct-18 20:01:04

ps I can manage to make one, not eat a whole one.