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Rufussmum Sun 30-Sept-18 07:31:44

I wonder if others on here were, or still are, users of Mumsnet? I recently joined GN after mooching about on MN for a few years. I wonder if there is a 'graduation day' or age when people feel more at home on here.
Dare I say it, but there is a calmer, more rational tone to most of the Forum posts (even AIBU). And all that hard-won wisdom on tap grin.

Jalima1108 Fri 19-Oct-18 20:01:04

ps I can manage to make one, not eat a whole one.

Jalima1108 Fri 19-Oct-18 20:00:43

I'm just not very good at making cupcakes and don't like all that icing.
However - I can managed an Australian boiled fruit cake!

(And I prefer a nice dry Australian Riesling too).

Rufus2 Fri 19-Oct-18 13:31:06

Besides, tea would go so much better with cupcakes, wouldn't it?
True! Except that we haven't got any cupcakes yet, but we have plenty of Shiraz! confused Anyway, Jalima promised to provide fruitcake which goes better with sherry so I'm told, To be on the safe side I'll lay on tea (Earl Grey?); sherries (dry, medium, sweet), Shiraz and a few pkts. of crisps. That should take care of all bases. grin Cheers!

JenniferEccles Fri 19-Oct-18 12:45:00

Do I like Shiraz? No sorry. Besides, tea would go so much better with cupcakes, wouldn't it?

Rufus2 Fri 19-Oct-18 09:58:30

Rufus2 Fri 19-Oct-18 09:36:46
I turned it off JenniferEccles (is this the future?)
Jalima; Naughty girl! wink Have you jumped the gun and been at the Shiraz already? You posted mid-afternoon. Perhaps you'd had another hard day's shopping! I can't work out what point you're trying to make; not cupcakes?
Our No.2 supermarket chain is advertising DIY cup cake mixture; looks easy, so I might give it a go. Wish me luck

Rufus, you idiot! You posted this somehow on the Technology thread, sad
Making cupcakes is hardly rocket science!

Jalima1108 Thu 18-Oct-18 15:30:00

I turned it off JenniferEccles (is this the future?)
We could have Eccles cakes (yum)

only Jalima will need to know how many cupcakes to make;
Cupcakes? Make? shock

I'll make a fruit cake insteadsmile

Rufus2 Thu 18-Oct-18 12:27:41

Yes! I like the look of the cupcakes
Jennifer; I welcomed you to GN a little while back, hoping you were graduating with some jokes and then you disappeared! Are you planning to move in with me along with my Mum, only Jalima will need to know how many cupcakes to make; do you like Shiraz? wink

JenniferEccles Thu 18-Oct-18 11:50:57

Jalima1108 Yes! I like the look of the cupcakes.

Anything but the awful donuts produced by the Apprentice contestants last night!!

Jalima1108 Wed 17-Oct-18 19:52:46

I think we should have some graduation ceremonies - complete with cupcake afterwards!

Rufussmum Wed 17-Oct-18 19:21:54

You've convinced me! I'm on my way. Send me your address and get my room ready. Am looking forward to spending the rest of my life in the bosom of my family. Will forward you a list of my dietary needs. Will need a nice quiet room with a sea view. And a car for my personal use. And I won't be available for baby-sitting. Your ever loving Mum. XXXX

Rufus2 Wed 17-Oct-18 13:51:42

I seem to have mislaid an offspring
Rufussmum; I'm so relieved Mum! I thought you'd abandoned me again! Don't worry! It's natural to imagine things as you age; after all 118 years must be when memories fade and rest assured you haven't any more in the woodwork or pipeline. I would have thought finding that you now had 5 GGCs in OZ would be enough for the time being. shock
Still thinking about your "no-expense-spared" birthday present; you haven't changed much over the years have you? Always difficult to buy for; if we asked what you'd like it was "a surprise; and "nothing" won't be a surprise" We'll keep trying; how about a trip in a hot-air balloon or a parachute jump? Just a thought! grin
Keep in touch Mum. Love you! Your devoted son Rufus2 wine wine

Rufussmum Tue 16-Oct-18 21:03:45

I seem to have mislaid an offspring. Whatever happened to baby Rufus1? Hope there aren't Rufus3/4/5 etc waiting to crawl out of the woodwork.

Rufus2 Mon 08-Oct-18 14:03:05

no decent man would swear in front of a woman.
Although the converse was not necessarily true! grin
Welcome to Gransnet Jennifer! Hope you have a sense of humour and come armed with some good ones.
FYI; Our family came to Melbourne 47 years ago and love it. "f" stands for funny here, although being a hybrid of Brit/OZ, my sense of humour sometimes gets people confused, but it's always good clean fun. smile
Btw; I'm one of those "decent men" you refer to, but there aren't many of us left unfortunately; a dying-out species.! sad
Have a fab time!

JenniferEccles Mon 08-Oct-18 11:07:12

Another one here who has 'graduated' !

I started looking at MN posts after reading about it in our paper. Yes it can be informative and interesting, but what really shocked me was the incessant use of foul language.
Some have even got the f word as their username.

It is especially bad on the Relationship and AIBU threads. So many of these young women seemed completely unable to express their thoughts without resorting to abusive language.

What really shocked me was the thought that these are young mothers, possibly with children looking over their shoulder as they post comments.

I can remember a time not that long ago when no decent man would swear in front of a woman.

Boy, how times have changed.

sassenach512 Mon 08-Oct-18 10:55:47

Rufussmum/Rufus2 love it you two, I've had such a laugh with your posts gringringrin

Rufus2 Mon 08-Oct-18 10:20:00

I've already got one. Think again.
Rufussmum: Dear Mum! How's that? "Mater" seems a bit pretentious and we are rather proud of our M/C working-class roots. We haven't forgotten you! Thought you'd jump at the chance of another state-of the-art scooter for your place in the country; saves having to heave the present one in and out of your RangeRover each time you visit. grin
Still thinking; Bye Mum.

Maggiemaybe Fri 05-Oct-18 10:08:44

MN can be very informative. For example, my family’s experiences have shown me how different giving birth on the NHS is for young mums now, but the reports I’ve read on MN have truly shocked me. I hadn’t realised just how bad things were in many areas.

Day6 Thu 04-Oct-18 15:34:27

I agree that MN is very hot in terms of feminism and political issues. There is a huge battle raging regarding gender which threatens women and their rights and I applaud those who post about those issues and keep abreast of news items which should concern us all.

I didn't know much about Posie Parker until I read threads there.

My main objection, regarding other topics is that some posters resort to really crass, foul language. I can swear with the best of them and am not in the least prim and proper but one wonders if the language they use online is used at home. The majority are civil. Some are blunt and seem to have little time for anyone.

GN is miles better in terms of 'community' I think.

I like so many GN posters (haven't met any) and find so many very wise, considerate and learned. It's a treat (and an education) to read many posts.

Rufussmum Thu 04-Oct-18 14:51:03

Rufus... We're getting you a no-expense-spared, state-of- the- art, electric mobility scooter, equipped with front bumper bar, air-bag, GPS (to avoid getting lost in those narrow country lanes) and a heavy-duty storm-proof canopy
I've already got one. Think again.

Rufus2 Thu 04-Oct-18 12:01:01

Gran to one, step-gran to another. I think that's all.
G'Day Mater; is that OK? wink "Mummy" has been appropriated by Charles and I know you wouldn't like "Mummsy".
Now you'll have to think again! You've got 5 Aussie GCs "down under", so you're now a Great-Gran; isn't that marvellous?
David 30, is recently married so you can expect to be a Great Great Gran any time soon! You must be ecstatic! I can hear your knitting needles clicking away already. grin
Don't worry about you birthday present. We're getting you a no-expense-spared, state-of- the- art, electric mobility scooter, equipped with front bumper bar, air-bag, GPS (to avoid getting lost in those narrow country lanes) and a heavy-duty storm-proof canopy so you can take it with you on your English summer holidays. Depending on your political persuasions, all we need to know your choice of colour; Tory Royal Blue or Labour Fiery Red. As with cars, they do say red goes faster.! Don't delay; the waiting list is already long. grin
Bye for now, Your Loving Son Rufus.

Rufussmum Tue 02-Oct-18 17:00:32

I wondered where you'd got to, you naughty boy! I thought you'd be banged up in jail by now based on your past form but I guess 47 years in Oz is punishment enough.
I shall expect a card and present for my 119th, and don't skimp on the expense.
And don't call me Mam!

Rufus2 Tue 02-Oct-18 10:24:03

Do you mind if I ask how old you are, only Rufus is in his 90s
Rufussmum: Hi Mam! Long time no see, since we left for OZ 47 years ago, in fact.!
Only 91, thanks to our good family genes, but unfortunately you missed my virtual birthday party. Anyway, you'll still be on the right side of 120, so it's good to catch up. We must keep in touch; Good Health, Mam smile

minesaprosecco Mon 01-Oct-18 22:23:19

MN has educated me completely to the threats to woman's rights from the transgender movement. For that alone, I am truly grateful that it exists. Not sure whether I graduated from GN to MN or vice versa!

MawBroon Mon 01-Oct-18 22:14:20

There was no MN when mine were tinies.
There was no internet!

Willow500 Mon 01-Oct-18 22:08:06

I've never been on MN - I didn't have young children in my life so didn't know about it.