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I’m 55. feel too young for gransnet but too old for mumsnet.

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bee63 Sat 18-Aug-18 11:46:03

Anyone else feel the same?
I do have dc and have recently become a grandmother.

ginny Tue 21-Aug-18 10:51:57

No, the original post mentioned not being interested in the Archers or knitting. On 18/8 at 15.04 bee63 posted that she was now embarrassed by her original post. No need to do that if what is there now has not been changed surely ? Intriguing is it not ????

Lazigirl Tue 21-Aug-18 11:14:00

We should ask bee63 to adjudicate but where is she????

kittylester Tue 21-Aug-18 11:15:58

At the moment HQ say they can't find anything to suggest an edit.

Only lots of long standing posters knowing what they saw.

This is leaving a weird taste in my mouth but I have no idea what the purpose of allowing an edit and then denying it would be.

Or has the site been hacked?

pollyperkins Tue 21-Aug-18 11:36:27

I don't think it was changed. I thought so at first after it was mentioned but when I looked again more closely I decided the 12.44 comment about knitting and the Archers was what I'd read. Hard now to remember the OP!! Why would it be changed if the 12.44 post wasn't removed? Makes no sense!

pollyperkins Tue 21-Aug-18 11:41:24

Actually she didn't mention knitting at all (but retirement) - someone else did. I think people are getting paranoid for no reason!

ginny Tue 21-Aug-18 12:36:12

If it hasn’t been changed then the following poster are giving quite strange replies.

Lazigirl Tue 21-Aug-18 13:17:09

Just goes to show how unreliable witnesses can be in a court situation hmm.

Bathsheba Tue 21-Aug-18 13:49:54

On 18/8 at 15.04 bee63 posted that she was now embarrassed by her original post.

No she didn't. What she said was "I feel very blush now for starting this thread". And that was in response to a long post by M0nica which roundly put her in her place regarding stereotypes. So Bee63 was embarrassed that she had evidently been guilty of pigeonholing grandmothers, people who are retired, people who listen to the Archers and so on. All of which were mentioned by her and others, in the thread that she had started which was now embarrassing her.

Riverwalk Tue 21-Aug-18 14:03:20

I'm curious as to why Bee hasn't returned to solve the mystery.

Earlier in the thread she responded a few times to various posters but since the 'confusion' has remained mysteriously silent.

ginny Tue 21-Aug-18 14:18:14

??

Jalima1108 Tue 21-Aug-18 14:34:49

Bee63 has been posting for at least 4 years - why is she suddenly wondering whether or not she's too young for us?

Jalima1108 Tue 21-Aug-18 14:35:15

Don't buzz off bee

jenpax Tue 21-Aug-18 14:35:31

Can I just put in a plea regarding OP’s not returning to their posts for ages!
It strikes me that life can sometimes get in the way of updating GN! it did with me the one time I started a thread! It wasn’t a fake post, and I didn’t return because I went into hospital. Others may have similar life events that prevent them checking back on their thread! So please don’t jump to the wind up opinion straight away?
I mention this as someone has already raised this as an issue.

Bathsheba Tue 21-Aug-18 14:56:17

I don't think it was changed. I thought so at first after it was mentioned but when I looked again more closely I decided the 12.44 comment about knitting and the Archers was what I'd read. Hard now to remember the OP!! Why would it be changed if the 12.44 post wasn't removed? Makes no sense!I don't think it was changed.

Exactly pollyp! Why indeed? As for anyone saying that a dozen people can't all be suffering from false memory syndrome, well I think they probably can be. Someone mentions that the OP has been edited, someone else reads that mention and thinks, Oh yes, I think maybe it has - they then post in support of the first mention. Now there are two people who believe it's been changed, and more people start to think it's true. In the end there are a dozen are so who have all convinced themselves that it must be true because, after all, surely they can't all be delusional.... (runs for cover with tin hat firmly in place)

Maggiemaybe Tue 21-Aug-18 15:25:35

I'm running with you, Bathsheba, as I completely agree! GNHQ have confirmed what we thought, that nothing's been changed, and I can't see any reason on this earth for them to lie about it.

I think bee's probably hiding somewhere with her tin hat on as well, having watched the conspiracy theory evolve. grin

Bathsheba Tue 21-Aug-18 15:39:50

Well if the world comes crashing down around us maggie we'll still have each other - oh and *pollyperkins of course! grin

pollyperkins Tue 21-Aug-18 15:56:01

smile

Lazigirl Tue 21-Aug-18 17:35:45

I said several posts ago that I thought people had been mixed up about original and subsequent posts, so you can add me to your list of dissenters Bathsheba & pp. it's a perfect example of power of suggestion.

Jalima1108 Tue 21-Aug-18 17:36:47

Are you forming a clique?

Lazigirl Tue 21-Aug-18 18:31:49

Yes, you are welcome for a small(ish) fee.

Jalima1108 Tue 21-Aug-18 18:35:33

Very small, I hope

I will bring cupcake

Bathsheba Tue 21-Aug-18 18:52:35

Ooh if you're bringing cupcake Jalima you're very welcome indeed. I think we can even waive the fee wink.

Oh, and welcome Lazigirl - yes, the power of suggestion is the perfect, succinct way of explaining it smile

Lazigirl Tue 21-Aug-18 19:22:10

All cakes welcome. I'll raid the wine cellar and bring that along too.(not the cellar, which is actually the kitchen cupboard). After a few glasses we won't know who posted what when smile

Bathsheba Tue 21-Aug-18 19:40:50

And we certainly won't remember if anything's been edited wink

janemar Tue 21-Aug-18 20:07:12

Why cant people accept they are wrong, 12 people have one opinion, the rest of us and GNHQ have said it has not been changed. Could one of the 12 say what was to be gained by GN lying about it?