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I’m 55. feel too young for gransnet but too old for mumsnet.

(136 Posts)
bee63 Sat 18-Aug-18 11:46:03

Anyone else feel the same?
I do have dc and have recently become a grandmother.

nanaK54 Sat 18-Aug-18 18:03:52

Crikey - I am 63, not yet retired and won't be all being well for a few years yet. I use GN and MN there are things of interest to me on both sites. Oh and I've never listened to The Archers but would never be judgemental about anyone who did

theretheredear Sat 18-Aug-18 19:09:46

Do both, I did & then more recently I've found myself more on here! Takes time to adjust! Enjoy

M0nica Sat 18-Aug-18 19:38:14

bee63, do not be hard on yourself, stereotypes merely show your youth! I am a hardened old lady of over 70 I have been fighting stereotypes of what an older person, especially a female elderly person, is for at least a decade.

Jane10 Sat 18-Aug-18 19:51:50

Och just embrace your inner pensioner. Saves time. grin

lemongrove Sat 18-Aug-18 19:52:46

allsortsofbags?? Good post.

lemongrove Sat 18-Aug-18 19:53:47

Jane grin

Fee47 Sun 19-Aug-18 01:11:46

Hi I'm new on here.. so bear with me .. was just browsing threw and thought to young or to old for various !! Come on ladies age is just a number wink am growing old gracefully ( disgracefuly)confused live on enjoy each day as it arrives god bless ..regards fionagrin

BlueBelle Sun 19-Aug-18 06:44:12

So now the answers make little sense as the original post has been changed nothing about knitting and archers in it any more!!!!

Willow500 Sun 19-Aug-18 06:56:46

I'm 64 and like to think I'm growing old disgracefully - I was a grandparent to my first at 43 and never once thought of myself as being too young. Although the body has started to become a bit decrepit in my head I'm still somewhere around the 30 year mark grin

mancgirl Sun 19-Aug-18 07:26:13

Bee63. It's the name Gransnet that puts people off I think. Not sure of a suitable alternative. My friend and I (65 and 67) have always said shoot me if we stray into perms and crimplene -don't think it's around now -dresses. As others have said, it's not about the number it's about your attitude to life. We can still laugh and have a lively and humourous exchange of banter on heregrin

kittylester Sun 19-Aug-18 07:29:50

How the hell does that happen bluebell?

Grandma70s Sun 19-Aug-18 08:24:29

I’m 78 and sometimes feel too old for Gransnet. The majority seem to be in their 50s and 60s, still working.

Did I read that someone was a grandmother at 43? I still had children at primary school when I was 43!

harrigran Sun 19-Aug-18 08:36:03

We have a gran on here that had a GC when she was in her 30s and was a GGM at 60.

Oldwoman70 Sun 19-Aug-18 08:46:01

Don't we all feel different ages through the day? I feel much younger than my years (most of the time!). Reminds me of something I read on the internet:

My brain tells me I am 25
My sense of humour suggests I am 12
My body keeps asking me if I am sure I'm not dead yet!

pollyperkins Sun 19-Aug-18 08:51:55

That had me confused for a minute Kitty but on re-reading I think the Archers and retirement comment came later, not in OP.

kittylester Sun 19-Aug-18 08:57:20

Not originally, polly.

BlueBelle Sun 19-Aug-18 08:59:49

Pollyperkins it has had words removed from the original if you look at 3.34 post by golden girl it’s says That’s a bit cheeky’ and that is BEFORE the subsequent post by Bee There is nothing cheeky in the title post now

BlueBelle Sun 19-Aug-18 09:00:31

Sorry 12.34 not 3.34

Bathsheba Sun 19-Aug-18 09:05:06

So now the answers make little sense as the original post has been changed nothing about knitting and archers in it any more!!!!

I don't think it has been changed - the reference to retirement and The Archers was in a subsequent post by the OP, at Sat 18-Aug-18 12:44:03

Bathsheba Sun 19-Aug-18 09:06:04

Sorry, should have refreshed to see later posts before I posted!

Bathsheba Sun 19-Aug-18 09:10:02

The comment saying "That's a bit cheeky" was in reference to the thread title. Goldengirl was, I believe, taking umbrage at the view that 55 is too young for GN, with the implication being that we're all much older and in our dotage, knitting and nodding off in rocking chairs.

Alypoole Sun 19-Aug-18 09:10:20

I rarely use mumsnet any longer but my favourite post on there was definitely “Bonjela on my fanjo”! Take a look at it bee63 , if you can and you’d realise we gransntetters are certainly NOT perms, retirement and rocking chairs! I do listen to The Archers though even though it irritates the hell out of me.

Grandma70s Sun 19-Aug-18 09:34:04

I didn’t know The Archers was anything to do with age. The people I know who listen have been doing so since they were in their 20s. I don’t listen to it myself.

Eglantine21 Sun 19-Aug-18 09:39:35

Hunting for the Bonjela ...........

Bathsheba Sun 19-Aug-18 09:55:59

Oh my word I've just read the Bonjela thread on MN and have been nearly crying with laughter. Thank you Alypoole grin