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What clothing did you most harm?

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PECS Thu 09-Aug-18 08:49:35

If you think what clothes, people who have caused you harm, were wearing what would it be?
The banker who refused a loan, who missold mortgages, stockbrokers who caused the crash, an unsympathetic teacher, a mean boss, the guy who robbed you, the driver of a car that caused a crash? Politicians who made policies that changed society? I think we should have data on this to see which type of clothing the people who cause most damage wear.

M0nica Thu 09-Aug-18 18:27:58

Definitely the babyish party dress, complete with a smocked bodice my DM made me wear when I was 12 at a dear aunt's wedding. DM decided her sister should have bridesmaids, she didn't really want them. and the only dresses my sisters (aged 10 and 5) and I had that matched were these party dresses, which I had always hated and had more or less outgrown. My embarrassment is very evident in the wedding photos.

I loved my DM dearly, but we never agreed on clothes.

MissAdventure Thu 09-Aug-18 18:33:57

A swimming costume did my friend harm.
She decided she was going to get fit..
Having put her bikini on, she bent down to give her bikini line a once over with a razor.
She bent over and put her back out.

kittylester Thu 09-Aug-18 18:43:09

The platform shoes that made it very difficult to know whether my foot was on the brake or the accelerator. Unfortunately it was the accelerator....shockblush

MissAdventure Thu 09-Aug-18 18:52:04

grin kitty

PECS Thu 09-Aug-18 19:36:31

My point was to illustrate that clothes,themselves are not harmful!

petra Thu 09-Aug-18 20:12:18

PECS
Try telling that to Isadorra Duncan.

M0nica Thu 09-Aug-18 20:45:25

PECS once your OP is posted, where it goes is or how it is interpreted is out of your hands - as I have discovered so many times.

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Aug-18 21:00:36

A swimsuit which my DM knitted for me - lovely until it got wet grin

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Aug-18 21:12:32

Ps no physical harm but it harmed me psychologically

Chewbacca Thu 09-Aug-18 21:26:35

The large patch pockets on my 1980s dungarees did me some serious damage. A door handle got caught in my pocket whilst I was running to catch a bus. The whole of the left leg was ripped open and I fell on my back.

notanan2 Thu 09-Aug-18 23:05:27

Im sorry your update re the political angle came too late...Ive already started mentally cataloguing the complicated sports bras I got stuck in and the dresses that zipped up but not back down again etc..

notanan2 Thu 09-Aug-18 23:06:54

My point was to illustrate that clothes,themselves are not harmful!

So you've never had a popped underwire dig into your skin?

oldbatty Fri 10-Aug-18 10:21:27

I still haven't solved the underwrite issue of which I spoke some time ago. I find one precarious hook fastened, rather than two, cuts me some slack. Also I am adept at removing the damn thing while watching telling. The strewn lingerie makes our home look like something from a saucy film.

oldbatty Fri 10-Aug-18 10:21:49

Telly

lemongrove Fri 10-Aug-18 14:17:40

Well, the stay up stockings that I wore for a wedding hurt my dignity if nothing else ( slowly sliding down my legs and pooling at the ankles ) during the church service.
My school beret gave me nightmares too.

lemongrove Fri 10-Aug-18 14:20:46

I don’t think anyone wearing a burka could physically harm anyone or defend themselves either under such a voluminous garment.
Shall we keep the thread light? Mor fun that way.

pollyperkins Fri 10-Aug-18 14:27:53

The high stilettos with pointed toes I wore in my teens and early 20s probably contributed towards my awful buniony feet.

mcem Fri 10-Aug-18 14:56:18

No distinction between the item of clothing and the person within?

I'd like to add the smart black patent shoes I was wearing a few weeks ago because they caused me to fall over and break my femur!

Jalima1108 Fri 10-Aug-18 18:09:22

shock oh dear, mcem - are you all mended now? And have you sent the offending shoes to the charity shop?

Elrel Fri 10-Aug-18 20:35:04

I'm thinking the other way! Definitely had most fun with boyfriends in denim. Best comforting hugs from male friends with woolly jumpers. Most spontaneous genuine friendship from women in flowing cotton dresses.
Beginning to detect that I get on best with people who don't obsess about what they are wearing or dress to impress!

Jalima1108 Fri 10-Aug-18 20:37:27

mmm men in woolly jumpers give good comforting hugs smile

mcem Fri 10-Aug-18 22:24:47

Thanks jalima. Pretty well healed now but still tire easily (unless that's just because I recently turned 70!)
The charity shop option does seem sensible.

petra Fri 10-Aug-18 23:00:15

Lemon
Mmmm, hold ups and a beret grin

Jalima1108 Fri 10-Aug-18 23:06:44

It's hard work walking round on crutches!
Especially getting upstairs.

MissAdventure Fri 10-Aug-18 23:44:17

I had a very painful hat as a child.
It was white fur, with horrific big pompoms on the ends of the ties, and a steel band in the edge part, to keep it close to my face.
It really hurt, physically and mentally to wear it.