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Cautious? cowardly?.... or just can't commit!

(15 Posts)
lemongrove Mon 06-Aug-18 12:04:46

Have been called that ( and much worse grin already kitty

kittylester Mon 06-Aug-18 12:00:25

Good point, lemongrove. (which is why you could find yourself called Lemongrass as my phone won't take any notice of me!)

lemongrove Mon 06-Aug-18 11:57:04

If you use the preview button, it helps you to think if you have said things correctly, my spelling certainly needs a check, but even then I sometimes don’t see it.

ninathenana Mon 06-Aug-18 11:50:37

I think those that don't are in a minority.
It's often cathartic to type out your feelings about something anyway with no need for anyone to read it but you.

NanaandGrampy Mon 06-Aug-18 11:45:41

ha ! Im the same Kitty!

jenpax Mon 06-Aug-18 11:44:16

I do this too!
Squiffy I also avoid the politics threads, as the tone of those can get quite unpleasant and I often don’t feel well enough to deal with it

kittylester Mon 06-Aug-18 11:39:08

I do the same when I can't be bothered with the inevitable fallout!

CassieJ Mon 06-Aug-18 11:22:27

I do the same often Chaos. Part of the reason is I don't want my responses appearing on FB.

Chewbacca Mon 06-Aug-18 10:26:34

Ditto DanniRae! smile

DanniRae Mon 06-Aug-18 10:20:39

I sometimes delete a post but not because it's controversial - I just reread it and think "Oh, that's boring, so who is going to want to read it?"
I nearly deleted this one too!! grin

Squiffy Mon 06-Aug-18 10:13:26

ChaosInc I do the same! I avoid certain threads altogether because I don't feel robust enough to join in! (we all know which threads I'm referring to!)

annodomini Mon 06-Aug-18 09:45:25

As there's no edit function on Gnet, once you have posted a message, you can't alter it or delete it - unless you ask admin to take it out. So if you aren't confident about a post, it's wise to make the decision not to post. I sometimes find myself doing just that too.

pollyperkins Mon 06-Aug-18 09:44:56

I do that sometimes. More often I type a long reply then forget to press post and it disappears. I did that recently twice so I ended up writing it 3 times. By the 3rd time it was much shorter and no longer relevant as the discussion had moved on.
Also I find it annoying that if I'm interrupted in the middle of writing eg telephone rings or DH wants something when I come back it has vanished. angry

allsortsofbags Mon 06-Aug-18 09:24:24

ChaosIncorperated

You aren't alone in writing out a response then putting it in the bin. I do it too.

The other things I have been caught out on is not fully reading all the other replies before I post and because it takes me so long to type my post can just be a repetition of what others have posted.

Hay Ho such is life grin

ChaosIncorporated Mon 06-Aug-18 09:10:39

This moring I again found myself typing long response to a post, with much attention to content.
And then deleting the entire thing without posting!!
What a ridiculous waste of time!

There are times when I say my piece, but more often than not I delete.

Is this just sensible practice in the more opinionated forums....or am I the only person consigning viewpoints to the trashcan?