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How do you define someone as being posh?

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NanKate Fri 19-Jan-18 22:18:59

This was a question posed on a local radio programme last night and was fun. Here are a couple of the suggestions, cocking your little finger whilst drinking, using a china teacup.

What are your suggestions ?

petra Sun 21-Jan-18 17:52:22

NotAGran55
Just the same as everyone thinks that people who live in Southend (where I live) are common.

MissAdventure Sun 21-Jan-18 17:53:11

Ah, I'm not much of a one for tv, only snippets.

MissAdventure Sun 21-Jan-18 17:54:19

I don't think you're common, petra. I'm on canvey. grin

mymadeupname Sun 21-Jan-18 17:55:48

NotAGran555 People do seem to assume some places equal posh.

We went to view a house recently. A modest house in a non posh area. The Estate Agent seemed perplexed that we were moving from 'posh village' to the one we were viewing.

Instead of talking up the area she was saying things like 'why would you move from 'posh village' to here?' in an astonished tone of voice. It was very funny.

Lilyflower Sun 21-Jan-18 18:01:44

According to the test I am a ‘U’. However, I know the rules and the lingo but do and say as I like.

PoshGran Sun 21-Jan-18 18:04:46

Me?? Posh??
I was considered so as I had my parents' southern accent at school in the north-east. It didn't take too long to fit in & when yelling the name of my best friend up the lane - "His name's not Tawny like an owl, his name is Tony!"- was my mother's exasperated cry.

My GN moniker links to where I live & the nickname of a football team.
Common as muck me! grin

BBbevan Sun 21-Jan-18 18:04:51

JRM. epitome of posh

mymadeupname Sun 21-Jan-18 18:27:24

BBbevan you have nailed it.

And his sons sound even posher:
Sixtus Dominic Boniface Christopher
Peter Theodore Alphege
Tom Wentworth Somerset Dunstan
Alfred Wulfric Leyson Pius
Anselm Charles Fitzwilliam

petra Sun 21-Jan-18 18:33:52

MissAdventure
I love Canvey. We lived at the Dauntless boatyard one winter. Happy memories.

varian Sun 21-Jan-18 18:37:30

What do you suppose the next one will be called? - Elvis Ringo Kardashian Farage?

varian Sun 21-Jan-18 18:38:06

Rees-Mogg

MissAdventure Sun 21-Jan-18 18:38:53

petra in a yacht? That's posh! smile

WilmaKnickersfit Sun 21-Jan-18 18:44:25

madeupmyname I do tuck in my tea towel, in fact I secure it under my bra straps (boobs natural)! grin

JRM definitely posh, but annoyingly so. I much prefer it to be less obvious. I didn't know about Eddie Redmayne was posh until I saw him on Graham Norton.

petra Sun 21-Jan-18 18:46:56

MissAdventure
Not a yacht. A barge.

Grandma70s Sun 21-Jan-18 18:55:32

JRM’s daughter has a perfectly ordinary name, unlike his sons. She’s called Mary Anne Charlotte Emma. Having so many names is a bit posh, though.

mymadeupname Sun 21-Jan-18 18:58:23

I gave one of those names to my daughter. High five.

sluttygran Sun 21-Jan-18 19:05:29

Posh? I’m positively aristocratic!
Pater was a coal miner, Mater worked in a tea shop, and we always had the very best quality sauce bottles on the table.
We had a butler - his name was George Butler and he lived next door.
We had a maid - my aunt was parlour maid at the vicarage, and I was at a public school - at least it was open to the public.
I always kept my finger sticking out when I drank tea - it stopped the spoon falling out on the Times which we used as a tablecloth.
We were class personified grin

varian Sun 21-Jan-18 19:09:41

I've met some posh folk in my time. slutty, but no-one quite as posh as you.

Bellanonna Sun 21-Jan-18 19:16:40

slutty ?

MissAdventure Sun 21-Jan-18 19:18:12

That's a beauty, petra

petra Sun 21-Jan-18 19:26:01

MissAdventure
Thank you. That was a big day. We had just left for a year to go through France to the Mediterranean.

sarahellenwhitney Sun 21-Jan-18 19:28:27

Posh is cutting up and eating a banana off a plate.
Not in your hand with the skin hanging down.

NanKate Sun 21-Jan-18 19:36:36

Are you taking the Grand Tour Petra now that is Posh with with a capital P ?

Grannyguitar Sun 21-Jan-18 19:41:52

When I was younger, the joke was that posh people got out of the bath to wee! So we were definitely posh then, in my house.

grumppa Sun 21-Jan-18 19:54:22

Are sure you live in Southend, petra, and not in Leigh, Westcliff, Chalkwell or Thorpe Bay?