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Luckygirl Sat 15-Apr-17 09:13:18

Anyone got a cure? OH says he is contemplating divorce!

Tizliz Wed 19-Apr-17 18:52:19

Bluebellgran look on some shooting sites. My OH has some very expensive ones which are individually made. You can get cheaper ones without electronics (they cut out the gun noise but allow you to hear conversations).

Luckygirl Wed 19-Apr-17 18:47:38

Weirdly I do always sleep on my side, but still snore very loudly.

Sazzysomerset Wed 19-Apr-17 18:26:04

Definitely separate rooms......sleep is so important and, once you've got over the 'he won't love me if I don't sleep with him' you'll find that, actually, you love each other more because one of you has not been awake and contemplating murder several times during the night.

melp1 Wed 19-Apr-17 16:51:37

Probably tried to strangle you because of the snoringgrinI know I feel like strangling hubby when I'm lying awake listening to his snoring and I've got to get up for work. Tried earplugs don't work for me, always worst if he's had a drink. The fingers on the face sounds great, thanks annifrance will try that I usually just push him over on to his side.

Yorkshiregel Mon 17-Apr-17 09:22:47

Being over weight is another cause of snoring. Try losing a stone and see the difference it will make. Also try adding another pillow so the snorer is not flat on his/her back. The person who does all the snoring is not aware they are doing it so no use falling out about it.

I think my GC is going to have trouble later because he already snores quietly and he is only 2yrs old!

Yorkshiregel Mon 17-Apr-17 09:18:16

The best cure is separate rooms! Good night's sleep for all then.

vampirequeen Mon 17-Apr-17 08:33:28

I snore like an bronchial bull elephant. Find out if the snorer snores through his/her nose or mouth. Easy to do as you're awake anyway.

A mouth snorer needs a gadget that keeps the mouth closed whilst asleep. The nose snorer (like me) needs a gadget that keeps the nostrils open.

I have a little gadget that slips inside my nose. It cost a couple of pounds and is a godsend. You feel it, although it's not uncomfortable, for a couple of minutes then forget it's there. DH says that I still snore sometimes but nothing like I used to and nowhere near as loud. He can actually sleep again.

BluebellGran Mon 17-Apr-17 07:01:53

I used a snore guard for several years, one that you mold in boiling water so it fits your mouth and it certainly helped. But I've stopped using it because it significantly altered my bite. It has pulled my lower teeth forward so I now have an overbite.
We have resorted to separate rooms, and earplugs for my husband when we're on holiday.
But finding earplugs that actually work?!!! We have tried foam ones (they won't stay in and have made my husband's ears sore as he continually screws them in), wax ones which don't protrude, ( expensive as they are 'single' use). If anyone has recommendations for earplugs that work, I'd be grateful.

Blueberrymum Sun 16-Apr-17 22:37:44

Snoring loudly is really awful. Our dentist made a snore guard for my husband and it definitely enhanced our marriage!

W11girl Sun 16-Apr-17 21:53:16

My husband also snores like a pneumatic drill. Its even worse when he has had a couple of pints. We have tried everything and the best remedy is separate bedrooms. There is a surgical procedure available but I wouldn't put him at risk at our age. Recently I found a fun "stop snoring device". It's a stick with a boxing club on the end of it...(its soft of course!). A few whacks and the snoring stops for a time. I keep it for when we go on holiday as we certainly can't go the expense of booking two rooms/cabins. I've heard that if you put a tennis ball down the back of a pyjamas the person won't be able to lie on his back...no snoring!

EmilyHarburn Sun 16-Apr-17 18:33:29

you should go ahead with some medical exploration of the problem starting with the NICE Guidelens

www.nhs.uk/conditions/Sleep-apnoea/Pages/Introduction.aspx

don't let your GP off the hook.

Luckygirl Sun 16-Apr-17 18:00:45

No wonder you live on a narrow boat!

Thank you for the link - I will give the exercises a go.

sarahellenwhitney - my OH is now taking sleeping pills to try and stop him acting out his dreams and the problem is much reduced.

I am seeing my GP on Tuesday and will be talking with her about my wheezy cough, snoring and loss of voice at times. I booked the appointment to see about my waterworks, but that may have to wait for another occasion. Just keep stuffing the pads down the drawers!

narrowboatnan Sun 16-Apr-17 16:27:07

This thread made me chuckle. I'm a snorer myself, have been for donkeys years. In hospital having had my first born I warned the other three mums in the small ward that I snored. I had a wonderful night sleep and woke to find them all glaring bleary eyed at me. Apparently I was lucky not to have had my bed pushed out into the car park.

gillyknits Sun 16-Apr-17 14:56:15

My husband used to snore like a freight train too,until he invested in a snore guard. They are a bit like a mouth guard worn by rugby players but are designed to push the bottom jaw forwards,slightly. He can warm it and get it to fit exactly. Since then (about six years ago) no more snoring. He doesn't always need to wear it now as his jaw automatically gets in the right position.
They certainly don't look pretty and are a bit uncomfortable at first but well worth it. He kept waking himself up with his snoring so now we both get a good nights sleep.

cc Sun 16-Apr-17 14:55:27

Fortunately my dh is in the basement and I am on the 2nd floor...

Llamedos13 Sun 16-Apr-17 13:40:26

My dh snores like a freight train hurtling down the tracks,not only do we have separate bedrooms, these rooms are at opposite ends of the house and I can still hear him at times.

Mauriherb Sun 16-Apr-17 13:26:13

Having lived with a snorer I found that separate rooms didn't really help because I could still hear Him! He lost some weight and it helped a lot,

cc Sun 16-Apr-17 12:58:44

Gaggi3 - my husband's snoring also improved after having a stent, though the drugs he takes mean that he gets up to go to the loo several times a night so he's kindly decided to sleep in a separate room which has a bathroom.
Personally I've found that sleeping on my back always makes me snore, which actually wakes me up! DH snores more on his back but can snore in any position really...

Diddy1 Sun 16-Apr-17 12:34:41

DH snores loudly so an undisturbed night is out of the question, I think the seperate bedrooms idea is the best suggestion,having said that, the past two nights there has been no snoring from DH, he is trying to lose weight, so maybe we have cracked the code, I hope so.

Marieeliz Sun 16-Apr-17 11:51:35

I have a deviated septum but do not snore. How do I know? I slept in the same room as my brother on holiday once to visit a friend, he thought I had died. I also share with my friend on holiday and she does snore. I know I sleep with my mouth closed I think mouth open sleepers snore. I am off with my friend to Canada in June, I just have to put up with the lack of sleep. She did use a nasal gel and that did work, then she stopped using it why I don't know.

Veda Sun 16-Apr-17 11:35:31

Use the guest room room for sleep.

Caro1954 Sun 16-Apr-17 11:21:31

Maybe rule out sleep apnea first. After that has been ruled out - separate rooms! And bathrooms!

sarahellenwhitney Sun 16-Apr-17 10:44:48

Luckygirl
Unless your husband gets treatment for this it is not going to go away.improve.
Separate rooms?? may be the push he needs to get this dealt with.

sue01 Sun 16-Apr-17 10:44:40

Mine finally admitted he did snore when he stayed away on business and a chap in the next hotel room complained to reception.

Turned out to be sleep apnoea and he now wears a mask in bed to keep the airway open.

No more snoring... but if he gets out to go to the loo during the night, he looks like Elephant Man silhouetted against the moon !

Also... he went to a sleep apnoea Conference in Coventry. Just about everyone in the room was overweight.

lizzypopbottle Sun 16-Apr-17 10:39:35

www.telegraph.co.uk/men/health/simple-workout-will-stop-snoring-improve-sleep/