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Have you ever done anything TOTALLY out of your comfort zone....

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gillybob Thu 30-Mar-17 09:33:01

....and found that you rather liked it?

Last night (shock horror) I did a Burlesque master class ! shock

I was kind of roped into it to make numbers up and wasn't looking forward to it one little bit, but to my surprise it was really good fun and not at all what I expected.

Has anyone else done anything way out of their comfort zone and found that they quite enjoyed it and would like to do it again?

Teetime Thu 30-Mar-17 09:44:37

Well done Gillybob. My Zumba teacher also teaches Burlesque but hasn't persuaded me to try it yet. In answer to your question Yes I have been on a abseil kind of thing across a 200 foot wide and deep gorge in the Lake District although it was some years a go I would do that again. I would really like to abseil down Malham Cove.

gillybob Thu 30-Mar-17 09:52:19

Wow Teetime Well done you ! I am terrified of heights and struggle to cross even a rope bridge at Alnwick castle with the DGC (who seem to find it hysterically funny). My DD did a charity Zip Wire across the River Tyne for charity a couple of years ago and I felt physically sick watching her step over the side of the Tyne Bridge.

If you do get chance to try Burlesque, you should. It was brilliant fun. We did a short well not short enough routine at the end complete with long silk gloves and feather boa, which, after a couple of glasses of wine or ten I might "do" for DH grin

Teetime Thu 30-Mar-17 10:11:59

Its certainly an idea I'm looking for something new and who knows DH might like a home showing- he liked it when I showed him my shimmy!!!

MiniMama Thu 30-Mar-17 10:34:24

I learned to scuba dive 15 years ago on our 25th anniversary- it was frightening in rhe sea ( very rough on top) but fantastic- it was in Belize I would love to dive again but wouldn't like to redo the test!

Grannyknot Thu 30-Mar-17 10:41:23

Burlesque does sound like fun. Not sure I'd try it at home though grin

A few years ago (I was 60) husband came back to the hotel room in Turkey with a big grin and brandishing two tickets for white water rafting! I didn't have the heart to say no so dug deep and found my inner adventurer and off we went. It was pretty daunting (I'm not a good swimmer but I made sure I got a working life vest).

I can't say I enjoyed it, but I made it! Husband loves showing off the photos of us all in the boat, I'm the one in the back clutching for dear life at anything I can get my hands on!

adaunas Thu 30-Mar-17 10:43:08

Yes! Dancing with Robots at Futuroscope, where you are suspended high up in seats on the end of a robot arm, in semi darkness and whirled round and round and upside down, just to keep granddaughter company. I don't like heights, or fast rides, but strangely enough, when she asked me if I will go on with her again this year, I said yes without a qualm. (Well without a qualm when it's several months and hundreds of miles away!) ?

tanith Thu 30-Mar-17 10:49:46

Yes I flew in a helicopter down into the Grand Canyon, my brother bless him thought I would love it and booked and paid for it as a surprise on our trip and it was non-refundable. It cost loads so I really had to be brave and go. I loved it but was a bit green by the finish grin

GranDi Thu 30-Mar-17 10:50:09

I did a 5K ski run that scared me so much I realised it's time to stop skiing. I'm 76 and never been a really competent slier. But it earned me one of my favourite accolades from my grandson who, when being told by his Mom that it was good to do things outside your comfort zone, declared, 'But Granny doesn't have a comfort zone!'

Katekeeprunning Thu 30-Mar-17 10:51:49

In November I took part in a Strictly Come Dancing fundraiser. We had 8 weeks of training and on the night performed in front of 1,100 people

There were 16 couples and we raised £76k

I would do the dancing again in a heartbeat but the fund raising was tough.

gulligranny Thu 30-Mar-17 10:56:51

Hate heights and lifts, so a couple of years ago when we were in Portsmouth to see the Mary Rose DH persuaded me to go up the Spinnaker Tower. The lift was surprisingly fine and the views made me forget just how high we were. And I even walked across the glass floor! Last year I walked across the glass floor of Tower Bridge too, with only the slightest of flutters around my nether regions - maybe I've laid that particular worry to rest now. Very glad I did it.

gillybob Thu 30-Mar-17 10:57:23

Truly in awe of you VERY daring people ! Blimey who would have thought we have White water Rafters, Skiers, Robot Dancers, Helicopter pilots passengers, Abseilers, Scuba Divers and wannabe Burlesque dancers among us?

Who said getting old would be boring ?

Irenelily Thu 30-Mar-17 11:10:39

When I retired(many moons ago now!) my children booked me on an Outwood Bound Course! It was for over 50s - I was the eldest at 61! We did Zip wires, tree walks, treks through the We!sh mountains, sleeping under canvas - hard ground! Also Rock climbing, abseiling and lots of water related activities. The most scary was kayaking - we were taught how to get out if we turned over - in a swimming pool. Guess who was the only one who did it in the fast running River Dovey. I did get out, obviously, and all the young instructors were very nice and gave me hot chocolate! Well out of my comfort zone! Glad I went - but then I didn't realise what it involved!!

moxeyns Thu 30-Mar-17 11:10:57

Karate smile Dropped my kid off at a new karate class to see if she liked it, and the teacher assumed I wanted a tryout too; great fun :D Have been doing it for 5 years now.

Yorkshiregel Thu 30-Mar-17 11:11:14

Yes I have. I used to work for the Leadership and Personal Development department (civil service) and they sent me on a course where I had to climb to the top of a telegraph post which had a wobbly top. I had to stand up on the wobbly top and jump off punching a huge ball as I went down 30ft. I also had to climb 60ft up a tree and stand on a wire, someone else had to do the same. When we were both on our separate wires we had to hold hands and walk along the wire. When we got as far as we could, ie fingers touching, we had to leave go and drop 60ft down to the ground. Very scary. The other thing we had to do was to climb on to a platform 30ft up in the air and clip ourselves to a harness then jump off the platform and whizz down the wire to another tree and then whizz back to the middle. All very scary but designed to do push yourself to do something you thought you were not capabe of. If you want to check type 'Brathay' and you will see what I am talking about.

David1968 Thu 30-Mar-17 11:11:14

Walked up Fox Glacier, in New Zealand in 2015. DH was very keen to do this so I accompanied him. Not the easiest terrain, as it's an uphill walk with "scree" underfoot - and I am a wussy walker! So glad I did it - not least because now I've back trouble and I wouldn't manage it.

MaryXYX Thu 30-Mar-17 11:12:03

I did my first (only) abseil three years ago, which was a bit scary. Last month an artist I had sat for before contacted me again. This time it isn't watercolour portraits, it's a huge oils on canvas reclining nude ...

Yorkshiregel Thu 30-Mar-17 11:13:13

Another one

Yorkshiregel Thu 30-Mar-17 11:15:32

Last one. Yes they are all me! Wearing white in one and blue in the other two.

Yorkshiregel Thu 30-Mar-17 11:18:34

Irenelily Sounds like the course I went on.

Yorkshiregel Thu 30-Mar-17 11:20:55

gillybob Don't knock it. It gives you an enormous buzz and your confidence goes through the roof when you do what you thought was impossible.

Try it!

paddyann Thu 30-Mar-17 11:25:22

I did a firewalk ,it was amazing ,so good that I crossed over the coals three times .Great experience makes you think you can do anything...I'm booking again for this Autumn

radicalnan Thu 30-Mar-17 11:39:54

I have had chair raisers put on my arm chair and am about to get a comfort height loo........maybe even a mobility scooter.......does any of that count? Seems to be a horrible chasm I am about to bridge between being myself and becoming an old dear..so scary. Won't be a dear will still be a cow but higher up.

Did dad's funeral service a year or so ago, just stood up said things, sang along to hymns and sat down again........glad I did it.

pennyh47 Thu 30-Mar-17 11:50:39

Going to Oz on my own. Stayed with friends but went off to the Whitsunday Islands on a boat with a load of youngsters. Climbed the Sydney bridge which was brilliant. For my 60th birthday my 4 daughters bought me a tandem skydive. Again brilliant. Always wondered how it would be to fall through a cloud! There is an organisation called GOD growing old disgracefully just for women which looks good fun but not one near me

gillybob Thu 30-Mar-17 12:23:45

they sent me on a course where I had to climb to the top of a telegraph post which had a wobbly top

I wonder if they were trying to see you off tell you something yorkshiregel grin

Great photo's. It looks terrifying to me, but I bet you felt on top of the world afterwards.