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Anyone else find their adult dc a bit boring?

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bee63 Wed 08-Mar-17 12:08:02

Just that really.
All they talk about is their jobs.

grannylyn65 Wed 08-Mar-17 12:16:50

No, mine are brilliant and never boring!!

MawBroon Wed 08-Mar-17 12:19:16

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ninathenana Wed 08-Mar-17 12:19:54

No, I love girly chats with D. S dosen't talk as he has ASD more frustrating than boring.

ninathenana Wed 08-Mar-17 12:21:34

Wow !
MawBroon you must be rightly proud of your AC

MawBroon Wed 08-Mar-17 12:23:54

Their friends have some amazing jobs too. I often wonder why my careers teacher only ever told us about teaching, nursing, social work or becoming a secretary hmmsad

ninathenana Wed 08-Mar-17 12:29:24

Yes, they were pretty rubbish weren't they smile
Our family never kept pets. So I didn't know there was such a thing as a veterinary nurse. Until many years later, If only sad

Greyduster Wed 08-Mar-17 12:53:33

Good Lord no! DS is a real chatterbox and when he is with us we will talk about everything under the sun; books, cooking, music, history, fishing (he does not fish, but indulges me!), sport, you name it. The only thing that I will not discuss with him is politics - I leave that to his father. DD is quieter and sometimes it's a struggle to find things to talk about - depends on her mood - but we get by. We have been talking about work recently because the firm she works for has just closed, so she has lost her job and is looking for another. It is also a common denominator for me because I used to work for the same company and so I know everyone who worked there. But no, I am pretty proud of how intelligent, insightful and amusing are the conversations our children have with us.

NanaandGrampy Wed 08-Mar-17 12:59:11

Not in a million years.

We talk about all sorts of diverse things.

bee63 Wed 08-Mar-17 13:01:48

Wow! You all have very interesting children.
It's just me then grin

Rinouchka Wed 08-Mar-17 13:09:16

No, we love conversing with our four. Their lives are so interesting and varied . Perhaps it helps that none live near us, so when we talk, there is so much to catch up on and discuss.

Jalima Wed 08-Mar-17 13:11:02

Gosh no!!

All of them are interesting and as for DD2 - well, I never know what she's going to get up to next grin

Jalima Wed 08-Mar-17 13:13:56

and when she tells me, I sometimes wish she hadn't.
I worry too much.

janeainsworth Wed 08-Mar-17 13:35:58

mawbroon I remember being told once that in 10 years time, 90% of people would be working in jobs that hadn't been invented.
That's why the young have such fascinating careers grin

nanaK54 Wed 08-Mar-17 13:39:31

No not at all - guess I am very lucky!

rosesarered Wed 08-Mar-17 13:45:00

bee63 I doubt very much that it is 'just you' but perhaps you are very honest in this matter.grin
If one of our DC launches into a long winded account about something ( job related) it is difficult to stay interested, I must admit.
Most of the time though, they are not boring and I enjoy their company, our DS is particularly entertaining.

Jalima Wed 08-Mar-17 13:45:51

teaching, nursing, social work or becoming a secretary
A bit more variety than suggested by our careers adviser then!

Teaching or the civil service was the only advice offered.

kittylester Wed 08-Mar-17 13:47:00

With our 5 there is always something interesting going on - sometimes too much! They are always interesting and, importantly, interested.

DanniRae Wed 08-Mar-17 13:52:13

My 3 are not at all boring - annoying, caring, bossy and always funny and entertaining but never boring grin

M0nica Wed 08-Mar-17 14:13:08

Well DS is a morris dancer and academic and DD is a skilled needlewoman and traveller, so no, I do not find them boring.

Norah Wed 08-Mar-17 14:37:51

No, never boring. They all love to cook and talk about cooking, recipes, and market finds. Three love to travel and always have a scheme for breaks. And there's always talking about their children and children's children, brilliant.

Luckygirl Wed 08-Mar-17 14:41:15

Definitely not - I can barely keep up with their full lives and general chatter!

Badenkate Wed 08-Mar-17 14:41:41

No, we all share the same rather black sense of humour.

grannypiper Wed 08-Mar-17 15:07:03

At times yes as my DS has the ability to teach people to suck eggs, other times he is great company.

tanith Wed 08-Mar-17 15:30:51

One of my daughters does obsess about her work at the moment but she's in the throes of being made redundant by Christmas so every little development is news I feel bad wishing she would 'JUST SHUT UP ABOUT IT' sometimes. grin Usually she's full of chat and news as is her sister but their brother isn't a chatterer by any stretch of the imagination but certainly not boring.