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Anniebach Sat 21-Jan-17 13:10:31

The painter went to Thailand . The cleaner overbooked . Moving day the removal man walked into the bungalow, no knock, my two dogs did a runner for the road. I bought a wardrobe from his shop, it hasn't come in. No clothes hanging area. Chap who installs sky dishes checked the dish here the day before the move, all was well. NO, tv didn't work, no landline no internet - bought a dongle thing- . Elder daughter still in hospital .

And no hot water because I cannot read the instructions for the gas .

The sun is shining and the dogs love the garden

Anniebach Sun 22-Jan-17 12:34:36

I bought a dongle thingy POGS, a kind poster told me about them , hope to have landline and broadband connected Tuesday . Having a slight problem though, coming from bedroom into hall I keep walking into the bathroom not living room , duh

Jalima Sun 22-Jan-17 12:43:26

grin
let's hope you find the bathroom in the middle of the nightanniebach

(or perhaps you don't need to, unlike me)

rosesarered Sun 22-Jan-17 16:40:38

things settle down, there is often a problem with tv or internet or phone just at first.Don't sweat the small things as they say, at least you are in your new home now.smile
most of the unpacking can wait until you feel ready to do it.Are you in the same town?If so, at least you know where everything is.

baubles Sun 22-Jan-17 17:07:58

Best wishes for your new home anniebach, hope you've found the kettle. brewcupcakeflowers

sue1169 Sun 22-Jan-17 17:16:49

Oh enjoy your new home ??

stayanotherday Sun 22-Jan-17 17:33:24

Could you put something like photographs or something up first so you'll feel more settled?

Bellanonna Sun 22-Jan-17 17:36:54

All the best Anniebach. It's a big change and one of life's big stressors, but hopefully you will settle in soon. ?

grannyqueenie Sun 22-Jan-17 17:41:33

Oh dear that all sounds stressful Annie my heart skipped a beat when I read the bit about the dogs, I'm glad you were able to retrieve them.
When we moved here 8 years ago, everything took longer to do and it all felt so exhausting. I can remember thinking I would know when I was settling in when I could put on my knickers without opening and closing several drawers!

grannyqueenie Sun 22-Jan-17 17:50:45

Ooops you and me both! What fun lives we lead ??

Jane10 Sun 22-Jan-17 18:15:53

Its exciting though and I bet you'll enjoy organising all your things into their new places. I'd say try to enjoy it but that would sound daft so I won't! I hope you're warm and have hot water and functioning appliances asap. This time next week...

grannyqueenie Sun 22-Jan-17 20:03:37

Ignore my post of 17.50, meant for somewhere else and living proof that multi tasking is harder than it used to be grin

Swanny Sun 22-Jan-17 20:15:52

Annie one day at a time eh? Lots going on for you but take strength from everyone's good wishes. Planning the garden is a good move - when things get too much inside it's great to go outside and breathe. New beginnings all round ((hugs))

Iam64 Sun 22-Jan-17 20:33:25

welcome to your new home Anniebach flowers

Anniebach Sat 04-Feb-17 18:00:57

Since the move

Work had to be done on vacated bungalow , no problem ?

Son in law who took on the painting had the news his father has about two weeks to live.

Removal man found he didn't have a free date untill March to deliver a wardrobe I had paid for and was to be delivered the dsy of the move.

Daughter discharged from hospital but was admitted again.

Niece who was helping with the unpacking developed a nasty chest infection.

Brother decided to take control and bring in his firm whilst I sorted out a vat query!

Brothers mother in law, darling woman age 89 was found unconscious and rushed to hospital, still there.

Brothers son serious injury on knee , couldn't walk and his partner had to leave for Holland because her grandfather had died. Brother racing to Merthyr and Cardiff hospitals,bungalow work on hold.

Applied to council, given another week to hand in the keys , another week paying rent on two properties.

Work resumed, brother took up flooring

Chap booked to sought out all my garden pots and bring them here had slipped disc.

Now five days to handing over keys.

Ex son in law offers to see to garden pots. Poured with rain all week.

Terrible news Thursday, very close friend of daughters committed suicide, upset us all.

Friday evening text from brother - in hospital, got septic arthritis .

Flooring still outside bungalow, shed not emptied,

I see a council fine awaiting me .

Love the new bungalow but troubled for those in extended family who are ill

Jalima Sat 04-Feb-17 18:15:10

shock

It's a long time since we moved but that was a series of disasters one after another, redundancy, family bereavement, accidents, illness etc etc.
Sometimes life does seem to throw one thing after another at you and you wonder later how you coped.

I don't know what to say except to send sympathy and best wishes to you.

Ana Sat 04-Feb-17 18:18:35

What a catalogue of disasters and tragic events, Annie sad

Sending sympathy and hoping everything will come together very soon and that you don't get fined - surely the Council will take your family circumstances into account?

Christinefrance Sat 04-Feb-17 18:22:05

Oh anniebach how I feel for you, why do things all happen at once. Sorry for all your family members who are ill,hope they recover quickly.
All you can do is deal with one thing at a time and one day at a time, it will pass but you need to be strong in the meantime.

As Jalima said sympathy and good wishes go out to you. flowers

glammanana Sat 04-Feb-17 18:31:03

Oh anniebach I do so hope things get back on track for you and your family what a list of tragic events to hit you all,I'm sure the Council will be sympathetic re handing over keys. flowers

Greyduster Sat 04-Feb-17 19:15:09

My goodness, Annie, you couldn't make it up, could you?? What a catalogue of disasters. I hope everyone is back on track health and otherwise soon, and that you manage to keep your equilibrium (I'm not sure I would!). I'm sure my old regimental motto describes you to a tee: "Suaviter in Modo, Fortiter in Re". Gentle in manner, resolute in deed"!

Anniebach Sat 04-Feb-17 19:21:02

Thank you for your kind words. Seperate the people who are ill , the rest realy is amusing. I posted it because I thought of the words of John Lennon - life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans . this is so true yes?

Jayh Sat 04-Feb-17 20:48:23

Very true.
?Things can only get better....... Annie.
I hope that you get some good news soon about your family who are ill.
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Swanny Sat 04-Feb-17 21:56:47

Annie I've just had to read your post twice to make sure I'd read it correctly. As Greyduster said, you couldn't make it up.

However, as you said, if you separate the people who are ill the rest is really amusing. I have been in my home 4 years now, yet still have one carrier bag and one box to 'sort through'. Part of me says I haven't needed/missed anything in that time so bin the lot. The other part says maybe better check it through first ... confused

grumppa Sat 04-Feb-17 22:33:43

Keep smiling through, AB. I would like to think that somewhere in the valleys there is a posse/coven of Gransnetters who could ride to your rescue.

Anniebach Sat 04-Feb-17 23:06:53

Thank you all. Things happen which we have no control over, like illness and the council rules and regulations smile

Wales are playing Italy tomorrow , and what a surprise , not one volunteer available, seems they are all busy, yeh grin

Bellanonna Sun 05-Feb-17 00:34:13

You sound good humoured despite everything that's going on (or not going on). It will all get settled and when it does I wish you many years of happiness in your new home.??????