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What presents worked and didn't work for you at Christmas?

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dollyjo Mon 26-Dec-16 12:06:04

One of my Granddaughters made us a calendar showing a photo of a different family member - including dogs - on each month of the year.
I now know I am getting old! I received 2 tins of biscuits and a food hamper.

An alarm clock from Aldi that projects the time onto the ceiling. The only problem being, it doesn't work. No receipt and so I hope they will exchange it.

M0nica Fri 30-Dec-16 08:12:40

DGC gave me an RSPB bird food hamper. Just what I wanted, so much so that DD had already given me the same thing two days previously, but she said not a word and the first was already dismantled and packed away so DGC both think that their's was the only bird food I received and they have loved helping me distribute it to the birds and telling me what a good idea their present was, and of course I have agreed with them..

Peaseblossom Thu 29-Dec-16 00:42:15

newnanny - if that keeps happening why on earth doesn't your husband tell his mother your correct size?! It's a pity you have to keep giving the presents away, after all they were bought for you!

kittylester Wed 28-Dec-16 16:08:14

We got the opposite reaction from his sister for whom me bought Lego. She took one look at it and dropped it over the back of the sofa without comment.

Helmsley444 Wed 28-Dec-16 12:46:13

I only get presents from my two sons my dh and a cousin do not many every xmas .So i apreciate them all

rosesarered Wed 28-Dec-16 10:23:56

kitty.... how long before somebody accidentally ( ahem!) puts their foot through it?tchgrin
Lots of nice presents this year either decorative or useful ( or edible...yum) so no complaints at all.

kittylester Wed 28-Dec-16 09:31:50

The drum kit we bought DGS2, who is nearly 5. He was beside himself with joy and kept walking round saying 'yes! A drum kit!'

DD3 and partner looked rather less so! grin

Greyduster Wed 28-Dec-16 08:40:10

What worked? The 'My First Book of Birds' GS bought me with his pocket money from a new book sale at school (I have been a bird watcher for forty years, but hey, the pictures are lovely!). It was accompanied by a tiny bar of Cadbury's chocolate ?. Also the large bottle of Lush 'Happy Hippy' shower gel from DH. What didn't work: salted caramel chocolates.

absent Wed 28-Dec-16 07:03:35

Older bother? Well, there's an element of truth in that, but I did mean older brother.

absent Wed 28-Dec-16 07:02:12

I just love whatever I am given because someone lovingly chose it for me and I love the fact that the people, including the children, to whom I give gifts love them too because I lovingly chose them for them.

I wasn't sure about the yoga mat for absent granddaughter2 but she is thrilled to have somewhere a little bit softer for her round-ups and handy stands [sic]. Little Wee Man hasn't stopped wheeling his trolley full of bricks around the house and in and out of the garden. Big Wee Man has endlessly played his Minions game with his older bother and so on and so on. Maybe not the best and certainly not the most expensive gifts in the world, but loved and treasured because someone they love and value gave them.

As for the delightful, surprising and special gifts I was given – well, I am thrilled, touched and keeping them.

Bijou Wed 28-Dec-16 00:20:18

Boxes and more boxes of chocolates. I don't eat sweets or chocolates. Enough hand cream to last me the rest of my life. But I did have one good present. A Carlucci box of different pastas and jars of sauces.

Legs55 Tue 27-Dec-16 22:16:25

Best presents ever this year (however we do ask for ideas), new black blind for kitchen & fuschia one for bedroom, I only moved last year & am now adding my own touches to decor.

Garden Gift Voucher from DM - I can find lots to spend that on.

DD - money for new clothes, new DGC in May, & she needs Maternity Clothes

DM chose a Solar Light for Garden, at 87 she's hard to buy for

Nelliemaggs Tue 27-Dec-16 18:25:45

I'm not easy to buy for as I can never think of anything I need. One of my DDs 'twinned' my toilet with a new latrine in Bangladesh in my name grin. Splendid idea.

1974cookie Tue 27-Dec-16 18:05:23

This year, rather than buy each other Christmas Pressies that we really do not need, my partner and I pooled our resources and bought a bench.
The bench though was not for the garden, it is sited on the Promenade of our favourite seaside haunt. We have had such wonderful days there, met some lovely friendly folk so when the chance to buy the bench came up, we jumped at it. We love the fact that we can give something back to a place and the community that we have grown to love.

Charleygirl Tue 27-Dec-16 17:20:35

Every year from 3 people I get food! I need food as a gift like a hole in the head. One was a box of chocolates, another 6 jars of home made marmalade (I like that) and the last a selection of cheese with odd flavours such as cranberries, chilli jam and chilli flavoured peanuts as well as chutney which I hate.

newnanny Tue 27-Dec-16 15:50:29

I have had some lovely gifts; earrings from my DS1, several CD's from DS2, flowers from my DD (she asked me what i wanted) and necklace from my DH. My worst gift will be the new knickers that will be two sizes two small that I will receive from my MiL in a couple of days time. She does this every single year and some years I also get a jumper two sizes two small as well. I just smile sweetly and give them to my sister who they will fit and she is always very pleased with them and we call them her bonus knickers.

annifrance Tue 27-Dec-16 13:58:25

Seacliff I think yours is a very good idea. In fact I think next year I am going to suggest to my friends that we go out and spend say £20 on ourselves for something we really want then get together for a reasonably priced nice meal to show them off. Well-done seacliff for planting the seed.

QuirkySand Tue 27-Dec-16 12:35:32

Both my DD and my DIL are teachers. I sometimes feel they pass on to me presents they have received from school. I try not to be offended, it is the giving that counts but this year I have had enough. I was given a gift, which I do actually like, but it is blatantly recycled. The firm stopped producing this items many years ago, so it is indisputable. I would now like to find a diplomatic way to suggest we stop buying presents for each other. It is finding the right words. I put a lot of thought and effort into presents for the individual.. The recycled gifts are recycled again as raffle prizes. It just seems a pointless exercise. Don't get me wrong, I believe firmly in recycling. I used to share my gifts with my Mum, but I never gave them as a special present, she just shared in my good fortune, mostly chocolates. Lol.

Anya Tue 27-Dec-16 12:14:01

Wi Dance! Love it - just the thing to kick start my annual get fit drive.

M0nica Tue 27-Dec-16 11:54:50

A large hamper of ........suet-based bird food. The birds are already showing their appreciation! Also 2 pairs of snazzy diamond patterned warm and cosy tights from the 'other' grandma. I am wearing a pair at the moment.

PRINTMISS Tue 27-Dec-16 11:52:04

Not so much us, but our son. We always buy him a big desk diary, which is kept for him by the people who care for him. On the outside I always put pictures of his favourite activities, along with photographs of the family. Inside family birthdays and addresses are duly noted, and it is a favourite with him, since it is his conversation piece. He brings it with him when he visits, and the first thing we have to do is write in the date for the next visit, and then we can sit and ready all that has been happening. He can't wait to open this, and every year it is a joy.

goldengirl Tue 27-Dec-16 11:36:19

DD's ex joined in the festive fun - they're very good friends; just can't live with each other! - and he bought me an M&S......Well! When I unwrapped it I just couldn't stop laughing which cause great hilarity to all because I don't laugh a great deal [which says something about me I think!!!]. On the bottle it says something along the lines of being a room freshener, a body spray AND a linen spray AND DD looked it up on line and it said something about being suitable for vegetarians!!!! How can one bottle of liquid cover such a variety of situations??? I nearly choked with laughing so much whilst DD's ex looked on slightly bemused. It doesn't seem so funny writing it down but it still makes me smile when I think about it. The children thought I'd gone mad - well, madder than usual tchgrin

radicalnan Tue 27-Dec-16 10:16:53

apologies for my typing today even worse than usual I am very tired

radicalnan Tue 27-Dec-16 10:16:16

I refuse presents.but did receive a home made card of a one eyes snowman who is winking at me still from my GDs........I don't need stuff...but a wink is not to be declined at any time of year.

Humbertbear Tue 27-Dec-16 09:39:35

I got an ew camera for a forthcoming holiday but I did help DH choose it. Haven't had presents from DS and DiL yet. They will expensive and probably not what we want apart from the calendar with the GC on.

Zorro21 Tue 27-Dec-16 09:33:00

Well, we're on diets and received what we have received from my husband's children for the last 20 odd years - biscuits.

I have to say, I was a bit miffed this time.