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to dunk or not to dunk

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sue1169 Sun 04-Dec-16 17:02:37

Yesterday my best friend came for a cuppa and I dunked a biscuit in my cup of tea....my friend was shocked and stated that she thinks its bad manners and quite common haha!! We did laugh about it and I shall still dunk and she never ever will...what do gransnetters think??

Ana Sun 04-Dec-16 18:19:21

Well, each to their own sue smile

goldengirl Sun 04-Dec-16 20:59:08

DUNK! As a little girl I used to dunk my ginger biscuit in my dad's tea and he'd pretend not to notice - well, there were crumbs floating there. Yes, my parents thought it 'common' and I was told never to do it in 'public' but oooh it's sooo nice; unless it falls in grin

Jalima Sun 04-Dec-16 21:16:48

Dunking is quite a fast movement, not a slooowww dip ....

Jalima Sun 04-Dec-16 21:17:43

I did feel queasy when I was in France, watching the younger ones dunk their bread in their morning chocolat

Deedaa Sun 04-Dec-16 21:18:01

Couldn't bear to dunk anything in my tea - yukky bits floating in it! On the other hand I do need cantuccini to dunk in my cappuccino (And I don't mind the bits in that?)

MiniMouse Sun 04-Dec-16 22:05:11

Precise timing is critical!

callgirl1 Sun 04-Dec-16 23:34:01

I only ever dunk ginger nuts, I always remember my FIL saying it was a disgusting habit, but it didn`t stop me.

Lilyflower Mon 05-Dec-16 09:31:49

I have two Digestives for breakfast and dunk them. I might not dunk if I were out or in company. My DH puts up with it and I tolerate his Marmite and Piccalilli.

Jaycee5 Mon 05-Dec-16 09:34:48

I don't think it's common, especially in your own home. I wouldn't do it in someone else's because that would be when the soggy bit would fall in the cup.

GrammaH Mon 05-Dec-16 09:40:13

Not a dunker myself but no objections to those who are - keep on dunking!

Kitspurr Mon 05-Dec-16 10:09:54

I was always told that dunking is common, but I couldn't care less, and dunk whenever I have tea & biscuits. Shortbread is the best to dunk with. Mind you, I do feel guilty whilst dunking.

Snowdrop Mon 05-Dec-16 10:21:09

I misread the OP, somehow an 'r' got in there.....

icanhandthemback Mon 05-Dec-16 10:55:06

Who on earth dictated "dunking" was bad manners? Such diktats are absurd, dunk away...as long as you use your own drink otherwise it would be rude smile

radicalnan Mon 05-Dec-16 11:04:27

Mmmmmmmmmm dunking, one of the few pleasure you don't have to forgo due to arthritis, dentures or poverty............keep on dunking.

Diggingdoris Mon 05-Dec-16 11:34:26

Dunking is an art that is learned over the years. I mean that some biscuits need just a second or two(rich tea fingers) while others need longer(ginger nuts). You learn from your mistakes don't you? Though I've learned to cheat with the RTF by holding two together! I rarely get slop in the bottom of the cup, so I consider myself an expert. I was told that even the Queen dunks! So carry one you dunkers, we are in good company.

sarahellenwhitney Mon 05-Dec-16 11:35:45

Dunking is what I do when on my own.
I appreciate other peoples feelings on this that it might be to them not nice!
Nothing worse than a soggy mess at the bottom of a cuppa.

Venus Mon 05-Dec-16 11:36:03

What is tea without a good dunk!!!

JackyB Mon 05-Dec-16 11:43:44

Like most on here, I am an avid dunker, but only in private - I do feel it might offend some to watch you doing it (as some have said further up thread).

You can't take lessons, though, Anya, just years of practice! But keep a spoon handy!

pollyperkins Mon 05-Dec-16 11:51:34

I always dunk biscuits in tea or coffee but not in company unless I know them very well! I agree with diggingdoris that there is an art acquired from many years exoerience as to how long to dunk differentvtypes of biscuit! I rarely have soggy bits in the bottom of the cup. I dont think biscuits taste half as good undunked

grandMattie Mon 05-Dec-16 11:52:42

Only dunk occasionally - was also told that it was common in England. The French part of me dunks away...
I dunk if I'm given a mug; with cup and saucer? No no no! wink

LadyGracie Mon 05-Dec-16 12:37:57

I'll try dunking any biscuits in my tea or coffee, fig rolls are delicious, Jaffa cakes very nice with milky coffee. Rich tea dunked in tea reminds me of my childhood, 6 children and mum and dad all in/on mum and dad's bed on a Sunday morning with a cup of tea each on a tray in the middle of the bed all dunking a shared pack of Mcvities grin

rosesarered Mon 05-Dec-16 12:43:54

Not about dunking, but about tea drinking, I remember seeing adults when I was a child, pouring some tea from the teacup into the saucer, and slurping from that! Not my Mother or a relative, perhaps a neighbour (can't remember exactly) but thinking it was probably something that shouldn't really be done.tchgrin

annifrance Mon 05-Dec-16 13:08:41

Yes it is common!! But I do it! Don't care what anyone thinks. Bourbon biscuits are the best. I love to dunk a strip of Cote d'Or chocolate lait and just suck.

annifrance Mon 05-Dec-16 13:11:17

And biscotti dunked in limoncello is the way to go.

sue1169 Mon 05-Dec-16 13:17:13

Well think its looking like dunkers win!!!?