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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

Candlefran Mon 28-Nov-16 16:27:12

Well. We could have a special thread. 'Dead posters please announce the fact here'.

Candlefran Mon 28-Nov-16 16:27:56

Maybe post the day before. As soon as you start to feel groggy.

Grannyknot Mon 28-Nov-16 16:30:32

anya neither of those ... I just don't want to know. They've been here for 2 months doing a 2 week job. I've got wine on the bedside table. A little medicinal sherry.

Ana Mon 28-Nov-16 16:31:26

Havve they said jingl's ban is permanent, merlot? How mad is that? And sad...sad

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 16:33:25

I sympathise GK ...... in fact I'm so much in sympathy with you that I going to join you now in a medicinal wine

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 16:34:40

Cfran grin

kittylester Mon 28-Nov-16 16:46:09

I'd just like to announce that I am feeling a little groggy - just to be on the safe side. I will have a medicinal wine to see if that helps - oh no! Cari said it wouldn't!

merlotgran Mon 28-Nov-16 17:21:37

They haven't said it's permanent, Ana but then they haven't said it isn't. hmm

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 17:37:00

Does the word groggy come from the noun 'grog' (rum with hot water and spices)?

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 17:39:24

Even if I have just split an infinitive
Don't blush about it, I love to boldly split infinitives
and have no shame about doing so.

thatbags Mon 28-Nov-16 17:45:56

Apparently grog was called after Admiral Vernon, known as Old Grog, who, in 1740, ordered that rum be diluted with water for sailors. It came, it seems, from his grogram cloak (grogram is a coarse cloth made of silk and mohair).

#fascinatingfacts

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 17:50:51

Interesting!

It was diluted for junior ranks but not for officers.
The rum ration was done away with on 31st July 1970

DaphneBroon Mon 28-Nov-16 17:58:04

Is grogram the same as grosgrain, then thatbags?

thatbags Mon 28-Nov-16 18:01:47

No, but I think both are from the same Old French word meaning coarse grained (fabric).

Grosgrain is that ribbed ribbon of the type used as hat bands. My school hat had a grosgrain band.

I quite fancy a grogram cloak!

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:02:35

"Grosgrain" is commonly used to refer to a heavy, stiff ribbon of silk or nylon woven via taffeta weave using a heavy weft which results in distinct transverse ribs. Historically grosgrain was made from wool, silk, or a combination of fibers such as silk and wool or silk and mohair. When a combination of fibers was used, the end result was sometimes given the name grogram, silk mohair, gros de Tours or gros de Napels.

I think it is still called grosgram in America:
www.alibaba.com/product-detail/Fashion-Printed-Grosgram-Polyester-Ribbons-Wholesale_1662738228.html

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:04:09

Not advertising Cari !

Unless anyone wants stars and stripes ribbon.

rosesarered Mon 28-Nov-16 18:06:17

I can't believe that any poster complained about the wine thing! WTF

Ana Mon 28-Nov-16 18:11:55

Might have been a few lurkers with nothing better to do...hmm

Bellanonna Mon 28-Nov-16 18:13:08

Unbelievabel. As you say RAR .......

Bellanonna Mon 28-Nov-16 18:13:51

I pad chooses the spelling

TriciaF Mon 28-Nov-16 18:15:34

That ribbon - it's still called grosgrain in France. I bought some not long ago, for the waistband of a skirt.

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:17:23

I used to buy it in my sewing days, there is probably still some lurking around at the bottom of the sewing box.

Now, what was that about wine did I miss something?

rosesarered Mon 28-Nov-16 18:18:47

Yes Jalima you did miss it, and now it's your turn to get a round in.tchsmile

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:24:20

Just a minute, I'll re-mortgage first
(how many members?)

watermeadow Mon 28-Nov-16 18:24:47

I have older friends who don't like swearing and are fascinated by the royal family but what makes me feel an alien on Gransnet is the many posters who are apparently of the same generation as my grandmother. I'm 71.