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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 15:25:31

That was with a wink btw

Candlefran Mon 28-Nov-16 15:26:56

shock Surely correcting other pisters' spelling is not allowed I'd it?!

Candlefran Mon 28-Nov-16 15:27:45

posters'

I do apologise

Alima Mon 28-Nov-16 15:31:26

Oh Candlefran, you did make me laugh!

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 15:32:10

Thank you for pointing out my typo CF - I love the irony of you protesting that I was denying you free speech, as it were, when that's exactly what you were doing to trisher wink

None are 'favoured' on this site and I see no reason why CF should be banned Jalima confused

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 15:33:03

Candlefran grin

Grannyknot Mon 28-Nov-16 15:33:30

anya it doesn't matter how important or responsible your job was before you retired, on here we are all equal.

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 15:39:34

We said we aren't all equal?

My point is that some of us, because of our life experiences are less inclined to take orders and be fobbed off with the offer of a brew or [cupcakes] or even wine

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 15:40:07

That should read....

Who said......

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 15:41:24

But at least this thread isn't bland wink

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 15:44:22

None are 'favoured' on this site and I see no reason why CF should be banned Jalima
No, nor me
JOKE alert ??? To CF in fact?

I never said that anyone was favoured so perhaps it's not me who's confused

on here we are all equal smile

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 15:51:31

Missed your second post Jalima it was in the next page!

No, it wasn't you who think there are a 'favoured few' those were CF's words.

Ana Mon 28-Nov-16 15:54:59

Are you we getting confused beetween Christinefrance and Candlefran? confused

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 15:55:12

Oh, missed that grin

confused again

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 15:57:27

Oh!!
re the same intials

Time I went and did something useful

Maggiemaybe Mon 28-Nov-16 16:05:38

I don't want to know who's on a warning and I don't want to know why someone's been banned. But I would like to know that someone has been, so that I know they're not coming back but haven't died.

Grannyknot Mon 28-Nov-16 16:07:28

Dear anya,

The phrase "because of our life experiences" makes more sense to me by way of explanation than "I had an important job". I therefore thank you kindly for the further explanation, for I now understand what you mean.

I remain,

Yours truly.

grin

Christinefrance Mon 28-Nov-16 16:14:10

Cari you were in a catch 22 situation there with the alcohol issue, have a strong coffee instead.

Candlefran Mon 28-Nov-16 16:17:57

That is a very good point maggiemaybe!

Christinefrance Mon 28-Nov-16 16:22:45

Anya thanks for the support or did you mean candlefran - joke.wink

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 16:23:35

That's a kind way of putting things GK - sometimes when posting in a hurry we don't always find the right phrase and I'm happy to apologise and be given the chance to better explain myself.

smile

Grannyknot Mon 28-Nov-16 16:23:55

But Maggie and Candle people who stop posting for other reasons may also have shuffled off the mortal coil.

(I'm hiding in my bed from builders IYSWIM, which is why I am on here at all).

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 16:24:09

Even if I have just split an infinitive blush

merlotgran Mon 28-Nov-16 16:25:09

I've been out all day so only just caught up with all the posts.

Thank you for your response, Cari

trisher's post just about summed up my feelings and although I accept jingl's ban is permanent (I did hope HQ might relent) I have to say it must have been something awfully serious other than her usual over-use of the wooden spoon.....arson? fraud? espionage? murder??

Did somebody really complain about wine?

Maybe I'm not so wide of the mark.

What time do the carol singers arrive? hmm

Anya Mon 28-Nov-16 16:26:42

That's got my imagination running wild GK

No wanting to supply endless cups of builders brew ?

Hoping they'll go away without payment?