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Shanma Mon 03-Oct-16 00:07:22

I just feel the need to say that I have not been here long, perhaps a week, and I am stunned by the amount of posts, and today an entire thread being deleted. Is this how it is all the time, or have I arrived when things are going through a particularly bad patch?

I can't understand the deletions at all to be honest. \if something is nasty, or abusive then I think it may be better if GNHQ banned the person, but please leave the thread/post or whatever for us to decide for ourselves. we are adults. I for one will not be reaching for the smelling salts if I see something a bit nasty. I will simply either add my two penneth or move onto another thread. How do you all feel about this?

whitewave Tue 04-Oct-16 10:30:25

Actually language is weird, because al though I suggested substituting it with idiots, it isn't quite what is meant and everyone brought up in England will now this. I guess cultural content is all.

Jalima Tue 04-Oct-16 10:37:58

ha ha, sorry~!~!

Nelliemoser Tue 04-Oct-16 10:49:43

Language use is so varied in Britain I would see "daft" buggers as a lot softer and more friendly comment than say stupid Buggers.

Daft to me seems almost a term of endearment. I know it was far from that once. Daft and stupid used to mean the same thing.

I call my DGSs "Daft ha'pworth."

whitewave Tue 04-Oct-16 11:02:37

Daft is a bit northern isn't it?

Ana Tue 04-Oct-16 11:04:49

Yes. Daft as a brush!

NanKate Tue 04-Oct-16 11:25:29

Thick as a plank.

granjura Tue 04-Oct-16 11:49:06

Private as in a private BUSINESS Merlot. They can do what they want- and if people don't like it they can opt out. It is not a social service or charity.

When I first lived in the Potteries, the char lady where I worked used to love teaching me Pottery speak. The loouk in the boouk, etc. But everyday she put her head round my office door and said 'go on, say it for me' and I obliged 'go away you silly booogar' and she laughed and laughed- made her day, every day. She'd never left home (Burslem) and anyone living in Hanley was a foreigner, let alone someone living in the Westlands (like us) and from Swizerland. I was the height of exotism smile

granjura Tue 04-Oct-16 11:49:55

Half a sarny short of a picnic.

A can short of a six pack.

Not the sharpest knife in the box.

Wobblybits Tue 04-Oct-16 11:51:50

The problem with a verbose forum is that you do not get the inflection of the words. Some Gners seem to take delight in analysing every word and looking at the worst . although, I have to say, I've not seen that lately . I often call my friends " silly old bugger", they are not silly or buggers (ok most of them are old!), no one would take any offence as they know what I mean.

grannylyn65 Tue 04-Oct-16 11:56:16

I was born near Meir !!

Jalima Tue 04-Oct-16 11:58:40

I did notice whitewave's post on the other thread though, mentioned above, where she called a pair of politicians daft buggers which could be a term of affection!!
Surely not ww [still rofl]

Jalima Tue 04-Oct-16 12:05:18

Did she call you 'duck' granjura?

I know I'm home again when I hear someone call me duck.

Apparently:
Where does 'duck' come from?
Firstly the word “duck” (a term of greeting, for man or woman) has nothing at all to do with the winged bird of the same name!
It is said to find its origin in the Saxon word ‘ducas’ which was meant as a term of respect; similar to the Middle English ‘duc’, ‘duk’ which denotes a leader, commander; from which comes the title ‘Duke’ and the Old French word ‘ducheé’ - the territory ruled by a Duke.

Do I believe that? hmm

The same article claims shippon as a Potteries word for cowshed, but one of my relatives lives in 'The Shippon' (converted barn) in Devon.

thatbags Tue 04-Oct-16 12:39:12

Shippon sounds more likely to be a sheep shed. They are used still on hill farms during lambing season. I guess they can be used for cows too.

Skipton means Sheeptown. It's too far inland to refer to ships as in Vikingskiphuset, the Viking ship museum in Oslo.