Sometimes argument simply means discussion. There is too much argumentism in the world: fear of, dislike of argument, prejudice against it. Likewise challenges to bullshit: challenges to bullshit or rudeness are not argument, they are challenges, call outs.
It annoys me that so many people don't really understand that argument and challenging should be respected and used, not feared and disliked.
Bickering, on the other hand, which is probably what the OP is concerned about, is another matter.