I'm feeling really weepy this morning

I feel so sad. I am not able to make up my own mind. I listen to my adult children, each one giving me different advice. Then I do something and regret it later. How can I redeem my power and make my own decisions?

No, I don't get weepy. I have a lot to contend with at present and keep all my energy for coping day to day.

There's a good site called Positivity - I don't know why it comes to me but every few days it gives really good advice and I'm glad of it ! Seems to 'turn the head around ' and lifts the mood or indecision . Keep busy, get dancing, breathe deeply . Hope you all feel better soon .

It's called The Positivity Blog .

It makes me weepy the way D's estranged husband still has control over her by using their children.

No.I usually feel lazy and can't-be-arsed-ish when I come on here first thing. (first thing for me that is). It usually wears off once I make an effort. So many mornings the first thing I say as I get out of bed is, "Oh dear" with sigh. Ridiculous. It's definitely a morning thing.

For those of you feeling sad . I sometimes let the tears flow and feel relieved for it.

When things are bad I say the words 'These things will pass' even if you are not religious the words are still powerful IMO.

At least you have your GN pals to speak to. I suppose our mums went round to the neighbours for a cuppa as their way of coping.

Hugs all round for those who like them.

So true Jings !!

Its Oh good, God, another day!
Or
Oh Good God, another day!
Is all in the comma ?

Nonnie sorry you are a bit down.
We all get a bit down sometimes and often it takes very little to knock us for six but then it can be a good release to have a good cry - just so long as you then mop up and make sure you do something that interests you.

More hugs for those who need them!(((hugs)))

Sorry for any GNs feeling sad. It's funny that some days I am unmoved by things and the next day I could weep at anything.

Nina, I feel your pain and when I most want to weep it usually involves thinking about the two sweet children that the Idiot is using as pawns. DD is feeling much stronger now though and I hope your daughter is 'getting there' too.

Other days I don't want to weep, I just want to kill!!

Three of my DCs are going through problems at the moment and I find that affects my mood. I found it hard to get out of bed this morning.

Kitty, same with us. Hope your DD stays strong. Some men are s--t!

If my DH, kids and grandkids are ok I am fine, full of energy and happy. If any one of them has a problem I am anxious, tired and worried. Hey Ho.