Teacher11 I do think it would be a shame if you left especially as Luckygirl says, this is an essential debate. I absolutely agree with her comments earlier that children are being rushed through their education. INVHO, those that are not keeping up are being left on the side. My DGS, has really struggled with everything. Initially, it was reading, but last year, his SENCO, his Y2 teacher and DD and myself really pulled him forward and everyone at the end of the last school year felt that he had turned a corner and was making loads of progress.
New school year, new teacher. She is a very efficient teacher, but she expects a certain maturity of her Y3 that DGS simply has not reached yet. Consequently every meeting is very negative and highly depressing. His mum and I say he is reading at level 7 at home, about 3 levels higher than school, she says that he may read it but he doesn't understand it, (he does, we question him and make him write a sentence about what he has just read). She says he doesn't ask for help, but she makes it clear she doesn't expect the class to ask for her help until the very last point (ie first think about it, then look at book for help, then ask another child before going to her), so of course DGS avoids asking her. He tells us he will ask the TAs for help just not her. She has never actually sat down and chatted to him, never listened to him read (he reads to the SENCO TA who is pleased with his progress), she has never discussed his IEP with him although the form says she is supposed to. Everything is just so negative, no wonder DGS is biting his nails and counting the days until his next holiday and we can't wait for this school year to be over.
Sorry to rant, needed to get that out of my system, but basically I feel teachers can't always do the best for every child, and it's not always their fault, the curriculum just seems far too rigid.