Ann60 and Luckygirl - commiserations. My OH also never wants to do anything, and he is several years younger than me and not due to illness in his case, just his nature!
I feel there will be enough time to sit around indoors when we can't go out, and we should do stuff while we can. That is what I will try and do next year, push myself to things without him. It is easy for me to slide into his ways of sitting around being bored, but I'm trying to fight against it.
For New Years Eve we have a couple of friends coming for a meal and may be a silly game or two, some music, they will probably stay until just after 12. I often find New Years Eve a let down, and if alone, would go to bed with a good book.