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Stansgran Mon 02-Nov-15 18:37:09

I'm going through a rough patch at the moment and the bu****s on the radio have just played Ground control to Major Tom and Luther Van Dross Dance with my father And I'm a wreck. Why do they do this? They're only pop songs from another life time. Any one else have this problem?

petra Wed 04-Nov-15 08:09:12

I miss the hungry years, Niel Sadarka. If you don't know this song, catch it on YouTube. The words are achingly sad.

daffydil Wed 04-Nov-15 09:11:07

Two more achingly sad but beautiful songs that I have just listened to again on You Tube. Passing Strangers by Billy Eckstine and Sarah Vaughn and You Don't Bring Me Flowers by Barbra Streisand and Neil Diamond.

kittylester Wed 04-Nov-15 10:49:24

We are going to see Mack and Mabel in a couple of weeks daffy. I love Howard Keel's version of that as well as your choice.

WilmaKnickersfit Wed 04-Nov-15 11:27:47

I think Sometimes When We Touch is one of the most beautiful songs ever written.

ladybird9 Wed 04-Nov-15 15:18:35

I absolutely love all kinds of music, from 50/60's, the popular classics, Russell Watson, many, many more, and favourites of the husband that I lost back in 2007, Jim Reeves, Roy Orbison, Johnny Cash, so many, Andre Rui is another, MUSIC IS EVERYTHING ........ ESPECIALLY LIVE

but I can easily cry, bawl my eyes out "so to speak" at all the music shared with my late husband. Life can be Cruel

Thanks to Gransnet members for sharing their views....

angel1305 Wed 04-Nov-15 15:19:02

Holding back the Years by Simply Red always starts me blubbing.

tinaf1 Wed 04-Nov-15 19:39:17

Nessun Dorma & You've lost that loving feeling the Rightous Brothers and a lot more !

Nana3 Wed 04-Nov-15 22:39:04

Why Does It Always Rain On Me ( is it because I lied when I was seventeen).
This always gets me started, I made some bad choices at that age.

Grandma2213 Thu 05-Nov-15 01:13:01

Did anyone hear 'The Why Factor' on Radio 4 yesterday (Wednesday)? It was about sad music and very interesting. Apparently it is good for us to listen to it. If you didn't hear it find the Radio 4 website and have a listen.

Marmark1 Thu 05-Nov-15 09:17:32

Yes,a lot of the ones mentioned.Has anyone ever heard Elvis,I'll remember you,Or if,Roger Whittiker.

jildray Thu 05-Nov-15 10:36:28

'No Regrets' by the Walker Brothers always does it for me. Great lyrics, all about loss.

WilmaKnickersfit Thu 05-Nov-15 10:47:21

Grandma2213 just had a listen to The Why Factor. Interesting and nice to know sometimes having a cry can be good for you. smile

purplehairstreak Thu 05-Nov-15 11:02:39

Have just found this thread/discussion. Yes, songs and music can bring on the tears and now I let this happen. I no longer care if people see me getting in touch with my feelings. Music is a very potent trigger for the emotions, whether they be good or bad, but it's no shame to let them show because we show our humanity along with them.

The choir I sing with learned "Someone like you" and we were encouraged to connect with our feelings of love lost in order to perform it more convincingly. At first I couldn't sing it without blubbing, tears streaming down my face. But once I'd done this a few times & I could sing through the tears, they went away, leaving the emotional connection in place.

The song that really gets to me even now if it's played on the radio is "Clare" by Gilbert O'Sullivan. This was the name of my baby who lived for 9 days before we lost her, and 40 years on, this song still hits me hard.

nannymcralph Thu 05-Nov-15 13:59:53

Oh my goodness! All the songs mentioned have made me a blithering wreck...... some for personal reasons, some just because they are so beautiful! I find I can cry quite easily when beautiful music is played, so mostly it's 'happy' crying if that makes sense. But thanks to Katek with regards to the Pearl Fishers Duet..... so beautiful.

grannylyn65 Thu 05-Nov-15 20:25:06

Knowing me Knowing you, after my divorce.

grandmac Sat 07-Nov-15 18:24:44

If I Could Be Where You Are by Enya.

Lots of other Enya songs but following bereavement this one especially.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=LMpwWSFEvEY

littleflo Sat 07-Nov-15 22:20:16

Oh My Papa. Well up as soon as the first note sounds

Bug180 Sun 08-Nov-15 09:10:22

If I'm feeling emotional, then Micheal Buble, 'Everything', played it at the end of my mums funeral

granjura Sun 08-Nov-15 09:59:00

Benedictus - from Karl Jenkins Mass for Peace, we went to a concert last night.

LuckyDucky Sun 08-Nov-15 15:29:23

The Parting Glass always made me weep.

This year I learnt it was about leaving when friends were asleep, insensible etc., but not dead.

The High Kings perform it beautifully. Love the harmonies. smile

Greyduster Sun 08-Nov-15 16:15:03

Apologies to any Scottish gransnet and grandads, but I absolutely hate bagpipes, but one tune that never fails to bring tears to my eyes is Flowers of the Forest - played on the pipes. Can't stand listening to any other pipe music but that one.

Greyduster Sun 08-Nov-15 16:16:03

Grannies, not gransnet!! Bloomin' predictive text!

starbird Sat 05-Dec-15 18:30:45

granjura I love Benedictus, it totally relaxes me, I find it very calming and peaceful . ......that is until the drums come in and jolt me out of my trance!

TwiceAsNice Sat 05-Dec-15 21:15:41

Distant Drums Jim Reeves my fathers favourite song
Bright Eyes and Bridge over Troubled Water Simon and Garfunkel
Abide with Me
Once in Royal David's City and Away in a Manger because of the words about children in Heaven
Nessen Dorma but is must be sung by Pavarotti
A little Drummer Boy

Old songs do it for me rather than modern ones a lot of the time

feetlebaum Sun 06-Dec-15 08:35:23

One of my weak spots is for I'll Be Seeing You (Irving Kahal/Sammy Fain)- ever since I listened to the damn words (as a musician I was, I'm sorry to say, prone to giving the music all my attention). Although it appeared in 1938, it was the realisation of what it meant to so many people in wartime that undid me... taken in that light it is a very brave song indeed...

I'll be seeing you
In every lovely summer's day
In everything that's light and gay
I'll always think of you that way

I'll find you in the morning sun
And when the night is new
I'll be looking at the moon
But I'll be seeing you

Oh blast it - there I go again (I kid you not)>