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The comfy bra thing....

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jellybeanjean Sun 27-Sept-15 09:49:58

This morning's email from Gransnet included info on how to find the perfect bra. What I want, what I would gladly pay a small fortune for, is a bra which feels comfy all day long (i.e. not one I am desperate to rip off after an hour). I am a large-busted lady (66 and 3/4; that's age, not bra size) and would happily go bra-less if it didn't scare the neighbours/wildlife or attract unwelcome leering (probably more shock than leer, to be honest). Sainsbury's do a comfy pull on one but it offers next to no support, so I'm flopping everywhere when I wear it. M&S do a fairly comfy white one with a satin underbust band, but I hate white bras. I am stuck with the black full support M&S ones I've always bought, which have been fitted 'professionally' but they are so tight I can hardly breathe (ok, slight exaggeration).
Would be interested to read recommendations from other like mind/busted grans.

sue01 Wed 30-Sept-15 16:25:17

My pleasure ! I would definitely phone first... and book a fitting. After that they're very good, and if you phone, will tell you what they have in your size. Saves a wasted trip ! Hope you find something nice. Sue x

WilmaKnickersfit Wed 30-Sept-15 17:09:46

Atqui it's health issues that make losing weight difficult, but it doesn't stop us trying (me and my husband that is)! I'm not very mobile just now, but am allowed to drive thank goodness, so I can get to Desborough (or be taken). It sounds daft, but when I was slimmer it never occurred to me that my health could be a barrier to losing weight. I always thought I would just go on a diet (again) and the weight would come off if I sstayed on track.

JoniBGoode Wed 30-Sept-15 17:16:29

sue01

Thank you for the info re the outlet in Northants. I am miles away from that area so I emailed them and had a very prompt reply with a link to their sister website. They have my favourite Fantasie bras at nearly half the price I normally pay. Thanks again.

Atqui Wed 30-Sept-15 20:52:26

Sorry to hear that Wilma

WilmaKnickersfit Wed 30-Sept-15 21:04:37

Not at all Atqui, it's still in my mind that I will get there some day! grin

Luckygirl Wed 30-Sept-15 22:58:58

Well - I went to M&S today and scoured the place for 40As - and found a bra that I would not normally consider - but it was in the right size. I tried it on and it was brilliant - they had two so I snapped them up! It is a sports bra with padded cups , something I have never gone for before - but I did not care as it is comfortable - hallelujah!

WilmaKnickersfit Thu 01-Oct-15 01:20:19

Luckygirl that's great! My SiL is an A cup and buys her bras from M&S, but she usually has to go to the Marble Arch store for them. She can get her size online, but likes to see the bras before buying. Problem is of course, styles keep getting replaced and she's back at square one. She's always said she doesn't need to wear a bra, but it keeps her decent if it gets chilly! wink grin M&S do bras in my size, but one might fit well, then the next one doesn't. sad

Luckygirl Thu 01-Oct-15 11:22:29

I beg its pardon - it is a "T-shirt bra", whatever that might be - but it's great!

I was totally, mind-boggled in my trawl round the M&S bra department - balcony, T-shirt, sports, underwired, non-wired, maternity (they looked the most comfortable - I was tempted!), post-surgery - my head was reeling! I felt like burning my bra and going native!

WilmaKnickersfit Thu 01-Oct-15 11:25:10

A t-shirt bra is a bra that doesn't show any seams through the fabric of a t-shirt so you get a smooth look. wink

WilmaKnickersfit Thu 01-Oct-15 11:27:29

PS If you found a t-shirt bra that you like, you'll wear it to death because it looks good under virtually anything! grin

Luckygirl Thu 01-Oct-15 12:53:40

I've always wanted a smooth look!

WilmaKnickersfit Thu 01-Oct-15 23:25:12

It does make a difference doesn't it? smile

Elrel Fri 02-Oct-15 20:00:42

Sad to say that 'Who Made Your Pants?' is closing down, with a closing down sale of all remaining stock.

aprilinparis Tue 06-Oct-15 17:08:58

I am a hefty 42G and find only Triumph make a non wired, comfortable and (much needed)supportive bra. I get mine online at needundies.com. They are direct and efficient and will change anything that does not fit.
My bugbear is the lack of colourful bras for my size in non wired. I end up with a choice of black or white !