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Flying tomorrow......help!

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Grannyknot Fri 25-Sept-15 20:53:08

And what's more - there was an "Overcome your fear of flying" webchat on this very site!

www.gransnet.com/webchats/fear-of-flying

Thank you, memory! (And Google).

Grannyknot Fri 25-Sept-15 20:51:22

katek there was an item in the Metro newspaper the other day - 5 best fear of flying apps (or something like that). Why don't you download an app? Worth a try, anyway. Good luck smile

flyfright.com/flyingapps/

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 25-Sept-15 20:18:37

Pilots often know short cuts. You will be there in no time.

rosequartz Fri 25-Sept-15 20:10:25

Just pretend you're in a bubble, you can't do anything except relax, eat, read, kick the seat in front, push your own seat back, annoy other people .... grin

(I do know how you feel though, although I wouldn't do the last three things, but they have been done to me!)

Katek Fri 25-Sept-15 20:07:07

Flying from Aberdeen to Palma to connect with our cruise. 3 hour flight leaving at 7am. Maybe I'll fall asleep.....

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 25-Sept-15 20:03:31

Decide you are going to enjoy it. The forecast for tomorrow is good so you will be flying through a lovely blue sky. And there's the nice food at the airport. And the snacks the trolley-dolly brings round. How long is your flight? Which airport are you leaving from? Take a book or kindle. Flights go very quickly. envy

whitewave Fri 25-Sept-15 19:59:22

I used to get into a terrible state, but somehow managed to get a more rational grip, and now can fly with only the minimum of fear, but much more manageable. Not sure how I did it, but wouldn't allow myself to be irrational was one thing.

Crafting Fri 25-Sept-15 19:48:14

Relax! It will be fine. Don't overthink it and get yourself worked up. I am claustrophobic and spent years avoiding lifts, planes, trains anything that generated panic. I went to psychotherapy classes to try and overcome my problem but in the end it came down to talking myself round. Enjoy your holiday.

Katek Fri 25-Sept-15 19:26:55

I am not a good flier at the best of times-in fact I didn't fly for 40 years. I had largely overcome my fears, but for some reason I'm up to ninety about our flight tomorrow to start our holiday. I can only assume I've used a lot of my emotional/psychological reserves fighting the chest problems I've had. (By the way, got new inhalers from consultant and HUGE improvement!)
Don't feel at the moment as if there's something nice on the horizon, more like a countdown to disaster. I know I'm overthinking yet again but I can't get it to stop.