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Cross generational friendship (West Wales)

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Anniebach Tue 28-Jul-15 09:53:27

You say West Wales and Mid Wales, are we speaking Cards,Carms or Powys? I live in Mid Wales

Nanabelle Mon 27-Jul-15 23:09:33

This is a tricky one isn't it. If you have been in Wales for three years already, maybe you know some neighbours you can encourage your children to chat to; often in our library there are different ages of people volunteering there - another place where your little one would meet older folk. It's only a year until school, and then you will be busy busy, and maybe there will be older people volunteering hearing readers in the class (I do this, and love having a chat with the little ones in reception).
When my children were little, I did all my shopping in the local village shops (no big supermarkets on our island at the time) and they would always smile and say hello to the bunch of old men sitting on the long bench outside the little spar shop. Nowadays I guess this would be frowned upon, but I still think it is good manners to smile and say hello to people.
Perhaps if you got in touch with Age UK to offer to shop or visit an older person, you could involve your children in a visit too?
Good luck

farmerswifey Mon 27-Jul-15 21:37:13

My apologies in advance - I am not a grandparent, I have popped over from Mumsnet for a little advice.

My husband and I have two beautiful daughters (3 and 3 months) and three years ago we moved to Mid Wales.
The girls have two grandfathers still with us but unfortunately they can visit very infrequently. We would so love for the girls to have regular contact with people from different generations. People to share a sticky bun with in Morrisons and who'll find our eldest entertaining rather than annoying. We have a lot to offer as a family in terms of friendship.

Do you think this is something that could work? Could anyone suggest where we could find such a person/persons.

I do understand the risk of meeting people online and would never put my children any danger.