Bit scary in Didcot.....

Just paranoid, I guess, but feeling very vulnerable.

Must be scary for you Alie. Your emotions must be very raw at the moment. Do you need to go out or can you just hunker down and keep the doors locked?

Good advice from Kitty. Lock your doors and hunker down if you can.

How are you coping otherwise? It's just a short time since you lost your daughter and you must be desperately sad and tired. Grief is such a raw emotion (((hugs))), I think of you often.

Hello Allie, I'm sure you aren't the only person feeling vulnerable in your area right now given the murders. The kind of grief you will be feeling must be adding to any anxieties. Look after yourself and yes, keep the doors locked

Allieoxon Of course you are feeling vulnerable at the moment you have had far too much else going on. Do not feel you are being a wimp over this.
(((hugs)))

Saw it on the national and local news last night, it is not a funny situation, lets hope they get the suspect in Oxford
Mick

I'm so sorry for your grief Alie. Of course you feel scared and vulnerable when your whole world has been shaken. You have had so many things to deal with that your emotions must be all at the surface right now.

As Iam says, the murders in your area will be making a lot of people feel vulnerable, so keep yourself safe. Thinking of you x

I understand completely how you feel Alie but I think he is probably miles away from Didcot now, either in that bit of Oxford parkland where the police are searching, or fled the area completely. A sad situation all round.

I presume your phones are working?

Kepp talking to us if you are worried. Gransnetters can talk all day to you

I always feel safer when I hear the 'copters as I feel I could rush out and flag them down( not too far from Durham gaol) if there were any escapees lurking . for you Alie

So sorry you feel so vunerable in your own home Alie the very place you should feel safe. As jbf says though he is probably keeping out of sight or completely gone by now. At least the police know who they are looking for, not just a random stranger. I am sure it will be over soon. Not nice especially when waking early in the morning and worrying. Batten down the hatches, cuppa and a snooze in the chair for you I think.

Stay safe Alie, lock your doors and settle down with lots of tea and tv. Hope it's all over soon.

I agree with everyone else, Alie. Lock the doors and windows and indulge in some rubbish entertaining TV Keep chatting on Gnet and have your phone handy.

As jingl says, he's probably miles away by now.

The murders happened not far from my DS2's family home Alie. I recognise the area and really feel for you. As if you didn't have enough on your mind. Everyone in Didcot must be feeling jumpy at the moment, though I hear that the police are looking for him in Oxford. Fingers crossed that the CiD have him in their sights.

Very glad to hear from you lot! My people I phone seem to have vanished for the time being.....

Yes he may be miles away but he might be in my neighbours' shed...the ones in the derelict house....and the house the other side is empty, sold but empty!
Actually I suspect someone is sheltering him - possibly here

Or he could have killed himself by now. What a mess.

Try not to think of him being nearby AlieOxon he is probably miles away by now hiding out somewhere or made his way out of the Country,such a sad story take care ((hugs))

Yes, lock doors - have you got a chain on the door, or at least make sure you know who it is before you answer the door.

We have encountered similar things - in fact everywhere we have lived (3 or 4 times)! but they were targeted; however you can't be too careful.

You are having such a rotten time, I wish these were real

Alie how frightening. As the others say lock the doors but I agree I doubt if he is still around. I hope he is found soon so you can relax a bit. You have had so much to deal with recently. I am off to the kitchen with a chocolate fudge cake. Pop in for a slice and a chat soon x

Alie, keep your windows closed and your door locked. You probably have nothing to fear from this man, the people he killed were relatives and he probably has no reason to target others. Have your phones to hand but stay online too so that you can talk to take your mind off the situation.

I hope they catch him soon.

Not target, no - but this sort of chase has ended up in hostage situations before now.

Or do I read too many crime books??

Are the police aware that your neighbours are a bit weird, and their shed could be a hiding-place? You could phone and tell them - they have probably checked it or have it on their list, but it would do no harm and make you feel a bit better.

And they won't think that you are a nuisance, part of their job is reassuring the public. When the police in my area were looking for a serial child molester and murderer I served a man in my part-time shop who matched the description (and I was a little bit concerned about) I contacted the relevant police because if he had been the one, I could not have lived with myself otherwise. They were very helpful. They found the real killer, thank god, when his next attempt was foiled by an observant neighbour of his potential victim.