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A slightly different Proud Mummy Moment!

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pompa Fri 01-May-15 07:29:28

Pheonix [hug], you obviously have every reason to be proud of your son. That so many of his friends remembered him on that day goes to show what a great lad he was, and one to be proud of for ever. I wish I had known him.

gillybob Fri 01-May-15 07:27:22

I have always believed that how we are remembered after we are gone depends in how much we were loved (or even just liked) while we are alive. A good,loving person will leave good memories and he or she will always be remembered. Bad people just go away, that's it.

I am sure your DS will be remembered by everyone who knew him and loved him, for many more years to come Phoenix which is testament to how he was loved when he was alive.

Wishing you many Happy Memories at this sad time. flowers

Soutra Fri 01-May-15 07:21:22

Huuuuge {hug} Phoenix, birthdays are especially hard, but how lovely to know that he has been such an important person to all his friends and still features in their lives. The young can have a wonderful way of expressing their emotions, can't they, making you laugh and cry at the same time.
flowers and sunshine to you.

Bellasnana Fri 01-May-15 07:07:15

I'm glad that what must be a very difficult and poignant anniversary was maybe made a little easier for you phoenix. You are a very brave lady.
flowers

absent Fri 01-May-15 06:58:50

You have every entitlement to feel proud that you raised a son who is still remembered with affection and respect by the young people who knew him and valued him years after his sad death. flowers

whenim64 Fri 01-May-15 06:58:09

Niice to read about thoughtful, caring young people, Phoenix. That must be very comforting, knowing how fondly others remember your dear son, too flowers

kittylester Fri 01-May-15 06:54:07

That is definitely a proud mummy moment phoenix and I bet you shed a tear or two! (((hugs)))

loopylou Fri 01-May-15 06:50:24

That must have been comforting for you phoenix, he must have been a really great lad to have remained in their memories, and for them to continue to keep his memory alive.
((Hugs)) x

Anne58 Fri 01-May-15 01:21:24

Good evening all,

As some may know, yesterday would have been my DS2's birthday, he died aged 19 in December 2008.

Yesterday I had a little toddle to the church yard to where my beloved step father is buried, and where DS2's ashes are buried in the same plot.

But what completely "blew me away" were the posts on my sons FB page, so many of his friends and extended family had posted such lovely messages, I was (to quote the vernacular) gobsmacked.

Seven or so years later, there were messages, I wasn't surprised to see them for the first couple of years, but to see his peer group (age wise) still remembering and posting was incredibly touching! I especially liked the odd one along the lines of "Oi!, keep the party noises down mate, some of us are trying to get some sleep here!"

Anyway, to justify the OP, I am so proud that my darling boy is so fondly remembered with such affection and for so long. (I know it's not that long in the great scheme of things, but hopefully you will know what I mean, youngsters move on so quickly, and rightly so)

If you have, then thank you for reading this!