I have to admit that when I was young I assumed old people had always been old and would never have dreamed that they could have had a life. How awful is that? I offered to help my DD with something the other day and she said 'oh I can't have that, I should be helping you'. I said 'why, because I'm 65, do I look as though I need help?' She said 'no'. She, however, is working full-time, taking my DGD here there and everywhere, trying to cope while her DH works away a lot. I would like to help but she won't have it. I am fit and well (fitter than she is actually) but I give up.