What next !!

'Desperate' comes to mind alongside Gillybob's adjectives....plus a few more.......

So would I gillybob

Iam64 well said.

Sadly, men and women can and do behave badly. Being a mother or father doesn't lead to personality changes - pity that

I din't know you knew her gilly. I can think of a lot more adjectives for her though!

I would call her a manipulative, contriving b*tch Nonnie

Having said that, I know someone in a very similar situation.

What would you call the woman whose biological clock was ticking so she married a man just because she wanted a sperm donor? Once she had the 2 children she dispensed with him (apart from wanting him to pay half of all her bills!)

It's certainly not a term I use in front of the children. It's purely for use here.
It's more polite than what DD calls him when the children aren't around.

You could have definitely have classed my dad as a "spermie". But I never would have done. I'm not sure any child would. Just us grown ups.

Yep! I can see where you're coming from.

I do think nina has a point though jings. To me a dad or father is someone who is around. Maybe not all the time but he is in your life. My sons "dad" did not deserve that title. He was never in his life, he did not contribute to his upbringing either emotionally or financially.

Kittylester you're right of course. But words do paint a picture. That's all.

I know what it's short for. I'd use 'his dad'. Or even 'his waste of space dad'.

But each to our own.

I agree ninathenana My sons "donor" never deserved to be called dad or father. He was never there for him and when he died my son went to pieces for the loss of a father he had never had. I reluctantly attended his funeral (with my son) and he wasn't even mentioned in the very elaborate service.

Why is spermie childish ?? It's short for sperm donor. He doesn't deserve the title of father he has never acted like one since the day his eldest was born. Several GN's know I use that name for him.
These names are for anonymity here. You wouldn't use family names I'm sure jings

As I said DD has sorted it i.e. spoken to head teacher and she will not be working there anymore.

jingl, I suspect that nina only uses those names on here, not in front of the children!

My son called his "dad" the donor (not to his face). Sounds awful I know but considering he up and left when he was less than a year old, he did have a point.

Talk to the head teacher about it.

Spermie? That's childish! And all the ex's and call him this and that makes it too hard to follow.

Result. One confused child?

first names that came to mind.

It's so childish isn't gillybob

Nina are you certain yours and mine aren't related?

It's this sort of stupid thing that makes the whole situation so much more stressful than it ought to be!

People can be so awful can't they ninathenana? Fancy going to such lengths to cause trouble. Why?? What does anyone stand to gain? An odd Brownie point? or is it all about one parent bad mouthing the other?

I like the choice of names and wondered where Rita fits in?