How lovely and kind you are soop. I am sure the time you spent talking to the 94 yr old lady made her day. Glad your pal is settling in but I do feel for his wife. Life can be so tough 
Soutra glad you received good care for your DH and do hope he will feel better soon.
This morning at 9am we gathered to lay my sister in law to rest. I found it very difficult to handle so soon after her death, but I shall always carry her last words in my heart. Her husband is an invalid after a series of strokes so was unable to attend the funeral. They have only one son, a lovely man, so he has a lot on his shoulders as well as a very responsible job and a young family. My heart really hurts for them all, and for the fact that I shall miss her so much.
There is no such thing as a wake in Malta - you all just part at the cemetery and go about your business, in our case, back to the hospital for DH to have his CT scan. Results on Tuesday so positive vibes/prayers/whatever would be most appreciated. I'm scared stiff 
Having DGD here is lovely and we also have another 4yr old staying so you have to stay cheerful for them. I'm babysitting tonight as DD2 is going out to celebrate her 31st birthday which is tomorrow.
Thank you to each one of you for your caring comments. DH and I are very touched by your kindness. 