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Giving us "--not so-- oldies " a bad name

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Soutra Tue 27-Jan-15 21:22:17

What do you mean "sometimes"? janeA? ( I actually had a seat already with DH beside me so hard to give her the basilisk stare myself!)

KatyK Tue 27-Jan-15 19:23:31

Once I got on a bus which was relatively empty. I sat on a double seat at the front and whilst 'sorting myself out' with all my bags, I temporarily placed my handbag on the seat beside me. The bus stopped at the next stop and an elderly couple got on. At this point I still had my handbag on the seat next to me but there were plenty of other seats. The elderly gentleman indicated to his wife that she should sit beside me. She replied loudly, pointing at me. 'I can't because SHE'S got her bag on it' Me, full of apologies, embarrassed and fumbling with my bags moved it quickly and she plonked herself down giving me daggers for the whole journey. I have a real 'thing' about people who put their bags on spare seats and don't move them when the seat is needed. It's rude and selfish.

janeainsworth Tue 27-Jan-15 18:38:56

Gosh Soutra you're scary sometimes!grin
The other option of course if you want extra space and don't want to mix with people who shop at Poundland is to travel first class.
I think I might have been unable to resist the temptation to step on rather than over dragon's feet as I made my way to the adjacent seatgrin

Ana Tue 27-Jan-15 18:27:35

She can't be a Gransnetter as the couple was at least ten years older than us! grin

That type of seat-hogger is annoying, I agree, but I get more cross when a parent (usually a mother) sits their young child next to them and stares down any strap-hanger eyeing that seat longingly...

Soutra Tue 27-Jan-15 18:18:27

I hate the habit many commuters have of appropriating a double train seat to themselves by dumping their briefcase or laptop on it and pretending not to see the rest of us looking for a seat. But today took the biscuit- train back from London at 3.50. So going to be busy as it is one of the last "off peak" trains until after 7. Elderly couple (well at least 10 years older than us I reckoned) climb aboard, she takes the outside seat of one pair while he sits diagonally opposite also on the outside seat. Quite soon somebody sits next to him 'Oh excuse me, is that taken? Oh thank you SO much blah blah" in the meantime she is giving the death stare to everyone who even glances hopefully at the seat next to her! There are people standing by the door, does the dragon let up? No. Eventually she graciously offers the seat to a "nice young man" who is suitably grateful and humble. She may have realised that she could fare worse, there was a very fat man also looking hopeful. FFS! Why are people so blankety blank selfish? If you want a double seat, but two tickets! And in any case if you don't want to mix with the hoi polloi , sit with your DH, so if you are a Gransnetter , dragon face and read this you know who you are.