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Marmight Mon 12-Jan-15 19:39:43

I had a lovely big carriage pram for my lot. They all went out in the garden under the lilac tree, cat net in situ and, in the summer, a canopy. I don't think any of my gc's had the same treatment - too busy a life and always the fear of baby-knapping wink. I walked for miles with the pram and once left it parked outside the Post Office; I had a funny feeling when I got home that something was missing.......

whitewave Mon 12-Jan-15 19:34:46

Made life much easier I think, Baby knew where she was and hopefully so did Mum. Mind you Mum is usually at work now so it is all immaterial

apricot Mon 12-Jan-15 19:23:13

This was usual when I had my babies in the 70s. I was surprised to learn from Mumsnet that it is still common in Scandinavian countries.
When I spotted a proper substantial pram recently, the baby's mother told me she had brought her pram with her from Sweden.

rosequartz Mon 12-Jan-15 19:12:05

The Routine! It sounds much the same!

All went to pot by the time number 3 arrived.

whitewave Mon 12-Jan-15 19:09:03

Yes - I remember that we were encouraged to keep to a routine with baby. I do remember it was bath and morning feed about 10'ish then out into the garden for a sleep. Always went out every afternoon for a constitutional before play in the afternoon. etc etc.

rosequartz Mon 12-Jan-15 19:07:27

vq and we did - the obligatory long walk (with the dog winding his lead around my legs!)

Mishap Mon 12-Jan-15 19:04:56

Yes - they used to sleep in the garden - with the cat/insect net of course. They used to love watching the leaves blowing around and it kept them quiet and happy for hours.

vampirequeen Mon 12-Jan-15 18:59:10

We didn't have a garden so me, the baby and the pram went for a long walk everyday.

rosequartz Mon 12-Jan-15 18:09:45

Not all three together, I hasten to add, they are not triplets! grin

rosequartz Mon 12-Jan-15 18:09:23

Yes, all three slept in a nice big pram in the garden, with a cat/insect-net. With just a vest and a nappy during the long hot summer, and wrapped up all snug in the winter.

You could strap them into those prams; when I was given a more modern pram to use for the DGC I found there was nowhere to attach the harness so I couldn't use it after they got wriggly.

glammanana Mon 12-Jan-15 18:06:12

I always had mine out in their big pram all weathers DD was a summer baby and she had fat chubby brown legs come October,they always had a cat-net over the pram just in case but I never had any problems,even when left outside a shop you wouldn't even mind if anyone stopped to chatter to them,so sad things have changed over the years you can't even smile into a pushchair now without the mum thinking you are a mad woman sad but understandable.

loopylou Mon 12-Jan-15 17:43:28

Both of mine went out in the garden in the big pram, with a cat/fly net, under a tree where the baby could see branches moving.
The dog we had when DD was a baby would lay by the oram and come and get me if she woke up, and we did live in the middle of nowhere.
Back then you would see a baby left outside a shop too, wouldn't dream of doing that nowadays.
Walked miles pushing that pram, toddler on pram seat when number 2 arrived....

harrigran Mon 12-Jan-15 17:23:15

I put both of my babies out in the garden, of course in a proper pram. One was born in March and the other in December but hail rain or shine we were out walking, only one that suffered was me as I got drenched.

tanith Mon 12-Jan-15 16:28:29

Yes always put mine in the pram outside, I suppose things are a little different nowadays , I'd be a bit wary of leaving a baby outside alone even in the garden.. such a shame times have changed so much..

Agus Mon 12-Jan-15 16:27:04

Always put my two out in the garden. Summer nets to stop bees etc getting near them and storm covers on colder days.

DD1 was a summer baby and preferred to lie on her tummy. When she had a bit of nappy rash, I applied egg white to her bottom, left her uncovered and the addition of fresh air cleared up the nappy rash.

Ariadne Mon 12-Jan-15 16:12:45

Mine - spring / summer babies, spent a lot of time in the big pram, watching the leaves and the balloons I tied to the trees. They had to have fresh air - that was the law.

Digression - I was once pushing my big twin pram, with a baby at one end and a toddler at the other, hoods up, up to the shop when we lived at Lee on Solent. There was an absolute gale blowing, and I was only out because, as ever, I had forgotten something. I was accosted by an elderly lady - clearly a retired nanny (gaberdine mac, uniform hat) who congratulated me on bringing them out - "This wind is full of oxygen, my dear!" So there you are.

FlicketyB Mon 12-Jan-15 16:10:53

I did with DD and she would sleep for hours and hours and hours. She was born in May and it was a long hot summer. DS was born in October and would only sleep in his cot in his bedroom. Even at a few weeks, if I put him in a pram in the garden, or in his crib in the living room, our bedroom or anywhere else other than his bedroom he would cry himself into a state until I put him back in the one place he was prepared to relax and sleep.

Leticia Mon 12-Jan-15 16:05:35

It would depend on your garden and type of pram-I expect that most people wouldn't have appropriate conditions these days.

annsixty Mon 12-Jan-15 15:59:53

I think those of us over a certain age all did NanKate they were well wrapped up and in PROPER prams. We had a carport and in wet weather they would be put under there.

NanKate Mon 12-Jan-15 15:55:03

My DinL was horrified when I said I use to put my DS down the garden in his pram everyday. Anyone else do this ?