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Ana Sat 03-Jan-15 23:17:19

Yes. We seem to have moved on from that though, absent - is that allowed? grin

Anne58 Sat 03-Jan-15 23:14:07

etheltbags1 are you serious? "Expensive" nursery school, so she can meet really well behaved kids and "professional" families?? Sorry, but I think you are living in a dream world if you think money and profession equals "nice" ! Also, please forgive the pedantry, but I don't think that these idealised people to whom you refer would use the word "kids"

absent Sat 03-Jan-15 23:11:53

For goodness sake. Isn't the whole point of the article that many of the swear words in use today and popularly attributed to Old English, are either not Anglo-Saxon in origin or were simply ordinary words for ordinary activities used snotorlice by ordinary people?

tanith Sat 03-Jan-15 23:00:34

ethelbags you really can't believe that rich well educated/behaved or professional families don't use bad language surely?

etheltbags1 Sat 03-Jan-15 22:56:31

that's the sad part of our society, I want DD to send DGD to a nice nursery school, expensive, so she can meet really well behaved kids and professional families. The local nurseries are full of rough kids who swear. Im being a snob but I just want a really good life for DGD.
Having said that I worked for a millionaire years ago and she swore like a trooper I was quite embarrassed. I must be realistic and try to tell her that its bad to use such words

Ana Sat 03-Jan-15 22:49:06

They will, though, there's no getting away from that fact.

etheltbags1 Sat 03-Jan-15 22:44:34

we are, hopefully, more civilised nowadays and quite frankly when I hear vile language from drunks etc I feel they are letting themselves down.

I just say 'oh heck' or 'oh my god'.

I once had a partner who used vile language, every other word was f...
and I started to use it when we argued as nothing else seemed to get through to him. It became a habit until someone said 'have you heard yourself' and I realised how bad it was.

I was brought up to be a lady, although we were no rich by any means I was taught that behaviour is most important if we want to improve socially. None of my friends or family use these words and I don't want my DGD to ever hear them.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 03-Jan-15 22:41:48

Bet you wish you hadn't started this Lily.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 03-Jan-15 22:40:54

Oh, it's an onion. hmm

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 03-Jan-15 22:37:39

shock Have you read page 2 lilygran?!

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 03-Jan-15 22:33:19

According to the article, they weren't vile in those days. Just perfectly useable words.

tanith Sat 03-Jan-15 22:32:24

Well!! whoever knew! grin

etheltbags1 Sat 03-Jan-15 22:31:14

I cant bear to read all that, I just know that we are better educated nowadays and should not need to use such words. It does not take a huge brain to be think up polite words in place of those vile expressions.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 03-Jan-15 22:17:22

Just too much in there!

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 03-Jan-15 22:16:53

shock. Rude.

Lilygran Sat 03-Jan-15 21:53:48

Saw this today and discovered I've misjudged the Anglo-Saxons. www.timeshighereducation.co.uk/features/culture/it-wasnt-all-nasty-brutish-and-short/2017639.article