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Well this is a fine way to start Christmas Day...

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vampirequeen Thu 25-Dec-14 01:17:45

...as Oliver Hardy would have said.

It all started around 11.30pm. A friend was bringing us a couple of dining chairs for tomorrow. On the way she developed a terrible pain in her chest and by the time she got to our house it was so bad she couldn't get out of the car. We managed to get her into the house and phoned for an ambulance. By the time the paramedic arrived she was in agony and bringing up small amounts of blood.

The ambulance has taken her to hospital and DH has gone with her. So now it's just a waiting game.

It's just gone 1am so I'm going to try to sleep on the sofa before the children get up to see what Santa has brought.

vampirequeen Sat 27-Dec-14 14:18:37

Thanks for the pm durhamjen.

I'm really worried about my friend. I've looked up a dissecting aorta and it seems that she should still be in hospital. I've sent her the website, durhamjen.

I've warned her not to do anything and she's going to see the GP on Monday or will go back to a and e if she begins to feel worse. She's still in a lot of pain and is exhausted. She's taking tramodol for the pain but it's not really touching it.

The hospital said the dissecting aorta had been caused by a peptic ulcer. She told them she didn't have a peptic ulcer but they insisted she did even they they'd not done any scans of her stomach and it didn't hurt when they pushed on it. She hasn't passed or vomited any blood or coffee grinds. They've given her an anti acid to take every morning.

durhamjen Fri 26-Dec-14 23:57:34

My gp called me a ticking timebomb when he saw me after I came out of hospital. Have sent you a pm, vampire.

vampirequeen Fri 26-Dec-14 23:22:12

I don't think anyone told her about not being alone. We let her go home earlier because she said she just wanted to go to bed. In fact she slept most of the time she was here.

I'll also tell her about not lifting anything.

They've told her that if she's still in pain in two weeks then she has to go to her gp.

durhamjen Fri 26-Dec-14 22:20:33

If it is a dissecting aorta, I had one last year. Yes, it is painful, and is not always diagnosed accurately.
When she comes out, she'll have to have someone with her, and make sure she doesn't strain at all, not carrying anything over 5 kg., Vampire.
I do not know if you want to look, Vampire, but they are quite rare so there is not much information from the NHS. We got most of our information from a website,
www.aorticdissection.co.uk

My sister works for a medical insurance company and she told me about not carrying heavy things. She got the information from one of their associate doctors.
If you want to know more, pm me, Vampire.
Wish your friend all the luck in the world.

etheltbags1 Fri 26-Dec-14 21:52:54

Hope your friend is ok by now.

vampirequeen Fri 26-Dec-14 18:34:28

Erm...if that's when a couple of layers split but one stays intact then yes lol.

She's been let out and is asleep on our sofa atm. She was going to go straight home but we insisted she came to us for at least a few hours. DH went to collect her.

She has to go back to hospital this evening to collect some tablets. DH will take her then drop her off at home if that's what she wants or she can stay here for a couple of days.

grannyactivist Fri 26-Dec-14 18:22:17

vampire I've only just caught up with this and I'm very impressed you managed to get food on the table at all. Hope your friend is soon well.

Galen Fri 26-Dec-14 13:33:25

Dissecting aortic aneurysm?

FarNorth Fri 26-Dec-14 12:48:02

That's a real shame for your friend, vq. Makes the fripperies of xmas seem irrelevant.
All the best to her and you.

vampirequeen Fri 26-Dec-14 10:07:05

Friend is still in hospital. They were planning to let her out but then took more xrays and decided that she needed to stay in so I guess it's even worse than they initially thought.

J52 Fri 26-Dec-14 08:06:00

Glad your friend is getting medical attention and hopefully in the best place! Congratulations on the expected GCs, something to look forward to.
This will certainly be a Christmas to remember ! Enjoy what's left in a more peaceful way. x

vampirequeen Thu 25-Dec-14 21:09:15

No they def said aorta. I thought it was odd but it's what they said. But then I wouldn't be surprised if they've changed their minds by tomorrow because DH has had numerous diagnoses in the last few weeks depending on who he sees.

Galen Thu 25-Dec-14 19:40:07

Torn aorta would be fatal!
Torn oesophagus perhaps?

vampirequeen Thu 25-Dec-14 19:28:33

Been a beggar of a day lol. Friend was admitted to hospital last night for tests and DH got home about 5am. The children got up around 6.30am and thank goodness Santa had been. It was lovely watching them open their presents. Older DDs and DGCs came later and both brought brilliant news. I'm going to be a grandma again next July and next August!!

We phoned the hospital first thing in the hope we could collect our friend but the doctor hadn't done his rounds. She managed to phone us to tell us that she was having more tests but was hoping to be out later in the day. She also said that the night staff had forgotten to tell the day staff that she was diabetic and by the time they realised her sugar was haywire.

DH took her some pjs and a food parcel around midday. Turns out she's got a torn aorta? (sp) hence the pain and the blood.

Good job I wasn't planning a perfect Christmas because as well as our friend being seriously ill, my cooker decided to do it's own thing. Sometimes it was hot and sometimes it cooled down. I ended up slicing the chicken and nuking it in the microwave to play safe whilst the beef was like leather due to it's Strictly Come Dancing (slow, slow, quick, quick, slow) method of cooking. We finally managed to eat around 3.30pm. Only two and a half hours late hmm Oh I forgot to mention I managed to virtually set the cauliflower and sprouts on fire by forgetting I'd put them on when I was worrying about the other things cooking grin

J52 Thu 25-Dec-14 17:20:11

Vampire- no news of friend? Thank you all toothache gone now. All the best x

MiniMouse Thu 25-Dec-14 16:47:40

VampireQ sending good wishes to you and your friend.

J52 hope the toothache settles. Have you tried using clove oil?

Mishap Thu 25-Dec-14 10:12:23

Poor lady - do hope she is getting good treatment and on the road to recovery.

Lona Thu 25-Dec-14 09:48:09

vampirequeen I hope that your friend is ok, what a night for you!

Nelliemoser Thu 25-Dec-14 09:24:24

Oh Vampire I hope all goes well for your friend and those with any other ailments.

Anya Thu 25-Dec-14 08:33:45

Hope your friend is going to be ok vampirequeen

DH woke the street up at 7.00am by blundering into the living room without deactivating the burglar alarm tchblush

pompa Thu 25-Dec-14 08:24:09

I do hope the news is good for you all.

soontobe Thu 25-Dec-14 08:06:08

Glad the toothache is better. Hope it stays that way.
It would be nice if teeth never played up. To be as inocuous as hair.

J52 Thu 25-Dec-14 08:01:22

Hope the news is good this morning Vampire. Toothache much better this morning, I have some stuff from dentist when it flared up before. Trying to avoid extraction!
Hope the day goes well for everyone. X

soontobe Thu 25-Dec-14 07:47:37

Hope she is fine, and you all still manage to enjoy the day.

Bellasnana Thu 25-Dec-14 07:23:52

Sorry to hear your news vampirequeen. Sending best wishes for your friend's speedy recovery, and hope you manage to have a happy Christmas flowers