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petallus Mon 08-Dec-14 10:49:03

For some years now a black tomcat has been coming in through my catflap, hoping to steal some of my little female cat's food I suppose. I always assumed it belonged to a neighbour. However, recently people have commented that it is feral. GS got a good look at it the other day and it is moth-eaten and looks like it doesn't have a proper home.

At first, if the cat was in the kitchen and heard one of us walking about it would hurl back out through the catflap. You only ever saw a disappearing black tail More recently, however, it has grown progressively bolder and just strolls out.

Last night, I went into the hall to see the cat was in. It sauntered into the kitchen and paused at the catflap looking over its shoulder at me. I did the usual soft voiced chat to it and moved closer. I intended to give it something to eat but it exited just before I got there.

So I put a saucer of cat food on the back step and called the cat (I have named it Blackie). To my surprise it miaowed from under my car just by the back door. It came out and ate the food right in front of me. So I fetched a few cat biscuits and put them in the saucer. The cat swiped at me with his paw (claws in). Like lions do to their trainers grin

I probably have not done a wise thing in making the cat feel welcome. It's likely it has fleas and I can't see it would ever be tame enough for me to take it to a vet to be checked over. Also, I have always thought of the cat as slightly sinister but it intrigues me and it is, after all, one of God's creatures.

Cat lover, what do you think I should do next?

whitewave Mon 08-Dec-14 20:35:01

Get the proper stuff from the vet which de-fleas and de-worms at the same time and would probably have to do it once a month for at east 6 months - be sensible to do your house as well as you existing cat.

Personally I couldn't stop feeding him once I had started, I am like that with the birds they cost me a fortune but I feel so responsible now for them all as they sit looking cheesed off if there is no food.

petallus Mon 08-Dec-14 22:47:34

Blackie was around again tonight and i put food for him on the step outside. He is definitely growing in confidence.

He is not a recent stray. He has been around for about five years. Until a few months ago we assumed he was a neighbour's cat and every time he came into the kitchen we would rush at him yelling 'clear off you little ....' Or some such. It was only recently whe a couple of people said they thought he was homeless that we started being nice to him.

I plan to see the vet tomorrow for advice and worming tablets.

BTW i know his name isn't very interesting. I am thinking of renaming him Portillo because he has something of the night about hin grin

petallus Tue 09-Dec-14 08:05:17

On thinking about it, that was Michael Howard.

I could call the cat Howard. It's DH's middle name so that would be rather nice.

tiggypiro Tue 09-Dec-14 08:16:19

It sounds as if you have got another cat petallus or rather another cat has got you. As my vet said when Purdy decided I was 'the one', they know a sucker when they see one !

shysal Tue 09-Dec-14 09:03:30

If worm tablets are a problem, when you can get closer to him, try the spot-on drops to the back of the neck (Profender), which last for 3 months, and monthly ones (e.g. Frontline) for fleas. If you warm the pipettes before use, they don't even know you have done it. I put them in my bra for a while! Embarrassing when I found a forgotten one when I undressed for breast screening, it left an imprint! blush

My vet neighbour has a one-eyed, three-legged, brain damaged cat who thinks he lives in any and every house in our terrace. As soon as his owner goes off to work he is in to eat my cats' left-over breakfast, has a snooze, then moves on down the row. We all love him!

Marelli Tue 09-Dec-14 09:11:34

My Daisy goes in next door when we go out. She knocks on their (now redundant) cat-flap, stomps in and makes her way upstairs where she settles herself on the vicar's pyjamas. shockblush!

shysal Tue 09-Dec-14 09:26:56

grin

apricot Tue 09-Dec-14 18:49:29

Portillo's a good name.
My animals all have several names.

Tegan Tue 09-Dec-14 19:03:08

When I moved to this house many years ago the next door neighbours cat used to knock on the door via the letterbox [one of those that was near to the ground, obviously]. I'll never forget the first time I opened the door and looked out...and then down to see who it was.

Deedaa Tue 09-Dec-14 21:57:51

A neighbour of ours had 3 cats which were left outside night and day and fed very little. one was a big black and white one who was always hungry but always refused to come into our house. This state of affairs lasted until the temperature dropped to -10 and thick snow fell.It took two days for him to work out how to use our cat flap and he's lived with us ever since (5 years now) her other two cats found themselves new homes at the same time!