The use of language and the giving of offence

Yes, it is. Got about half way through but I'm too tired just now to finish it so will carry on tomorrow. Thanks for the link

I loved it - and learnt something I hadn't even realised was happening. In fact I have been just as bad in my own way, assuming that all the men who apparently thought I was fluffy-brained and treated me to long-winded discourses on their favourite subjects, were in fact aspergic!