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Are you firmly attached to your handbag?

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overthehill Thu 25-Sept-14 17:08:54

I am.

To the extent, today I went for coffee with friends just down the road but still took my bag.

By the time I remove phone, glasses, tissues or anything I think I might need, I might as well take the bag.

My bag contains many things. Voucher folder, purse, cough sweets, comb, keys, phone, pens, umbrella, tissues, glasses, hand wipes, mirror and more which I can't bring to mind.

Ana Thu 25-Sept-14 17:12:57

Me too. So attached am I to my bag that I feel very odd if I have to walk any distance without it. I think it's my comfort blanket! grin

shysal Thu 25-Sept-14 17:17:27

My handbag is my security blanket and goes everywhere with me, even if it remains in the car boot when out visiting. It is a large black leather Healthy Back Bag which contains my whole life! There isn't room on here to list the contents. I once left it in a shop by mistake and it was handed in to the Police. The long list of contents they had made was so embarrassing! It ended with 'assorted nuts and bolts'

goldengirl Thu 25-Sept-14 17:20:39

Yep! Me too. It's a shoulder bag and it carries everything I might need smile.

Nonnie Thu 25-Sept-14 17:23:37

No, love my bags but am really happy to go for a walk with a couple of cards and some money in the pocket of my jeans.

Nonnie Thu 25-Sept-14 17:23:53

Oh, and my phone in the other pocket.

Tegan Thu 25-Sept-14 17:32:04

I often wonder how men manage, not being able to have hand/shoulder bags [although they can carry them if they look as if they contain a pooter of some kind]. I do have a tiny tiny shoulder bag for when I walk the dog; just big enough for keys, phone and tissues but, in general, my bag is huge and quite full. I'm not someone that has lots of bags as it takes too long to transfer things from one to another, although I have switched to a slightly smaller one recently as my old faithfull is so big things tended to disappear in it for days at a time confused. Gosh; contents; purse, medical stuff [paracetamol, imodioum, rennies, plasters, zovirax etc]; small sewing kit; glasses; biro; phone; small raincoat [the use once and throw away sort]; tissues; camera [sometimes]; comb; sugar sachets liberated from when I have a coffee out [I sometimes like sugar in coffee]. Handwipes are a recent addition [found them very useful on my holiday and easier to use than gel]. Sometimes a book in case I have to wait in the car for a while.

goldengirl Thu 25-Sept-14 17:34:26

But Nonnie what about tissues, umbrella, pen + spare, notebook, carrier bag, keys, diary, book, wipes ( not the same as tissues) ...........

henetha Thu 25-Sept-14 17:50:15

I'm so fond of my handbag that it even goes to bed with me at night.

tanith Thu 25-Sept-14 17:51:05

I'm happy to just take keys and phone, if shopping my purse I don't need much else.

numberplease Thu 25-Sept-14 17:53:55

Very rarely use one.

Ana Thu 25-Sept-14 18:06:12

Oh, henetha, so does mine - although not actually in the bed, just on the floor beside it...

kittylester Thu 25-Sept-14 18:30:53

Yes I am and it contains - tissues, wipes, hand gel, nail file, pens, small filofax, large purse, hankies, paracetamol, immodium, indigestion tabs, lipstick, comb, small bottle of perfume, moisturiser, fold up shopping bag x 2, various receipts, phone and my keys.

kittylester Thu 25-Sept-14 18:33:28

I don't take it to bed - it lives by the grandfather clock in the hall. I used to take it to bed until a friend woke up one night and found a man going through her bag looking for the car keys shock. She left it downstairs after that!

ffinnochio Thu 25-Sept-14 18:41:44

Travelling far afield, yes. Usually a rucksack of some kind. Everyday, definitely no.

KatyK Thu 25-Sept-14 18:55:06

I have a recurring dream in which I lose my handbag. confused I sometimes wake up in a hot sweat in sheer panic. In these dreams I put it down somewhere and then when I go to leave wherever, I can't find it. I am in a terrible state, asking everyone I can find, searching under chairs and in cupboards. So yes, I think I am quite attached to mine. And yes, I take it to bed, well not inside the bed obviously grin but upstairs with me each night.

J52 Thu 25-Sept-14 19:00:50

Totally adhered to it! I change my bag to suit the activity and how much I have to carry. Some bags have specific roles; small ones to pack for holiday, large ones to carry everything when travelling etc.
When I go to bed, the current days bag lives on the bed post!
Definitely my security blanket, with their own personalit! X

hildajenniJ Thu 25-Sept-14 19:15:20

NO. Most of the time it's just a nuisance. I have several, rarely used. I usually have all I require in my pockets.

Gagagran Thu 25-Sept-14 19:21:13

The Queen seems to be like those of us who "handbag-ites". She is seldom seen without one!

granjura Thu 25-Sept-14 19:46:06

same as hildajenniJ- I try to avoid one if I can. If I have to have one, I have a small leather rucksack- and when I really do have to be more formal, I have a beautiful soft Gucci bag given to me by a daughter.

annodomini Thu 25-Sept-14 19:47:42

My whole life is in my handbag: phone, purse with multitude of cards (credit, debit, loyalty, discount, library, memberships...) diary, inhaler, Gaviscon tablets, paracetamol, bus pass, railcard, driving licence, insurance cert, tissues, comb, lipstick(s), pens, pencils, wipes, perfume atomiser. And I take it upstairs at night. I must have missed something.

granjura Thu 25-Sept-14 20:25:37

Went for a big wild walk today + lunch for a friend's BD. Lipsalve in one pocket, 100CHF note in the other with the paracetamol, just in case my knees got too bad as we had to walk back up the hill (didn't use them)- basta!

POGS Thu 25-Sept-14 20:27:36

I can only use a small shoulder bag. I hate carrying a clutch or a handbag, so fiddly.

It consists of my purse, a mobile, tablets and a hairbrush.

My sister is joined at the hip by her 'dustbin' sized bag, complete with 3 year old sweets, shop receipts that she will never want, brushes, tissues, hair lacquer (she admits she never uses), enough fluff to knit a jumper with etc. etc.

She is always complaining how heavy it is, I just wish she would carry something useful in it like airport bottles filled with Bicardi and a can of Coke. smile

ffinnochio Thu 25-Sept-14 20:31:02

anno Although I can't stand handbags, I'll happily walk by your side with you and yours..........obviously ready for any eventuality. smile

janeainsworth Thu 25-Sept-14 21:09:24

Tegan You wonder how men manage without a bag......it's the 'can you just pop my wallet/my camera/the insect repellent/the sunscreen/my fleece into your handbag' question!
I go round in ever-decreasing circles with this one. I have to take a large bag, so that I can accommodate these 'extras'. MrA perceives that I have a large bag, and thinks he can ask me to put even more stuff in it.

This is despite my having bought him a very stylish man-bag some time ago.

Did you have a good holiday?