Feeling Feminine?[hmmm]

On woman's hour thee was a discussion about heels - on shoes. One of the high profile women said she wore them because it made her feel feminine. it made me think...er.... I don't think I've ever consciously wanted to 'feel feminine'. I'm a woman .I think I feel like a woman. Wearing frilly clothes would make me feel silly and uncomfortable . BTW I love the look of high heeled shoes even though I can't wear them. Do most women want to "feel feminine"??