For my 60th, a house party for about 60. Thank goodness it was mid summer and we put up 3 cheap canopies in case of any light rain. My first ever real birthday party.
For DH 60th (he is younger than me) the boys/stepsons organised renting a National Trust House with big kitchen like Downton. Music Room, all victorian, 2 sets of stairs. Out-house had a hot tub and sauna, robes .... the works. Big yard which was great for two DGC and their bicycles. We were there for 4 days. Asda food delivery all organised by the family. It was 40 miles from home and we went in a convoy of 4 cars. One son and wife came home from England for the event. Ten of us altogether.
Unfortunately !!!! it was a surprise and hubby didn't take well to the surprise. Didn't know where he was going and assumed it was a hotel. We just followed the other cars. (I knew where we were going ) As we drove his face was like a poisoned lemon, and he muttered about not knowing where he was going, did he have the right stuff with him... etc. etc. just him and me in our car. We never fall out..... by the time first car pulled in for coffee, him and me were at it hammer and tong. I told him he was ungrateful etc. etc. Kids stood outside in disbelief. Then eldest boy opened car door and said... Right da... you-me-coffee-now !!! We got out of car, DH said he didn't want coffee (like a child)... I told him to go get coffee because he wasn't coming with me (also like a child) DDiL says to DS..... I told you he'd not take well to a surprise.....
Of course, all was fabulous. DH did not like being out of control and once he settled himself you'd have thought it was all his idea.