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PRINTMISS Mon 23-Jun-14 07:44:09

That at this time of year some men of any age, shape or size seem to think that it is perfectly acceptable to strip to the waist. I can live with shorts and long socks - or no socks, but there are some men out there who would be much wiser to keep their clothes on. I know, it is a seaside thing, and probably townsfolk do not suffer so much, but there are some really appalling sights around down here, particularly as I live on what is loosely termed a 'private' estate! (Not as grand as it sounds!)

Gagagran Mon 23-Jun-14 21:19:56

Did anyone see the pictures of Paul McCartney on holiday in Ibiza in the press today? He was on the beach, granted, but oh dear me, he'd forgotten his bra. Not a pretty sight.

FlicketyB Mon 23-Jun-14 21:14:27

.....and then walk round with their trousers at half mast, so that they do not so much strip to the waist as strip to just above the pubic hair.

I was running a pitch at an Antique Fair today and saw several men walking around bare chested. None of them had anything worth baring and, despite the weather, it seemed an inappropriate style for the opccasion.

Ana Mon 23-Jun-14 21:09:49

I agree, roses and janerowena, although MrA might leave off the waistcoat if it was just Tesco...grin

janerowena Mon 23-Jun-14 21:07:24

grin DBH is repressed too. He rarely takes his top off unless we are on a beach.

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 20:44:18

Phoenix quite right too, good on Mr P for dressing properly.Mr Roses wouldn't even go to Waitrose without 3 piece suit, formal shirt and cufflinks.

BeeWitch Mon 23-Jun-14 19:22:25

I think there's something genetic in this whipping off of the tops - perhaps going back to cave man days? Bless them - I must admit that the old George Melly song 'It must be jelly 'cause jam don't shake like that' comes to mind. grin

Anne58 Mon 23-Jun-14 18:07:04

I think Mr P must be a bit repressed. In all the 13 years we've been together, he has never gone outside topless, not even when cutting the grass in the garden! In addition he has never even worn one of those singlet/vest things, always a T shirt, ordinary shirt or polo shirt.

Cancel the opening sentence, just been thinking about other things and Mr P is definitely repressed.

Tegan Mon 23-Jun-14 17:59:05

Have to say I just flicked over to the tennis from the football as Novak was changing his top; now he can walk about anywhere anytime shirtless imo blush. Cor!!

Mishap Mon 23-Jun-14 17:34:24

My DD once asked (loudly!), when viewing an enormous lady approaching, "Why has that lady got no knees?"

kittylester Mon 23-Jun-14 17:29:25

I'd just like to report that DH changed when we went to town this afternoon as he deemed it inappropriate to go shopping in shorts. shock

janerowena Mon 23-Jun-14 16:31:30

I dislike seeing anyone out and about not wearing a top of some description. I don't care what they look like, young or old, slim or fat. I like people to be properly dressed in town. In their own gardens or at the seaside - fine. Or in parks. But in places where you shop and eat and on transport - keep your clothes on, please.

And you know what - I really would like to make it illegal. Because if we are out for the day, I find that I head for places that advertise no admission unless wearing a shirt and shoes.

Grannyknot Mon 23-Jun-14 15:57:33

jane grin Evilly fascinating.

A colleague of mine many years ago, in her 60s, had a double mastectomy and used to strip down to the waist when she worked in her garden! The garden wasn't open to public view, but it did make me wonder... but subsequently I thought why the heck not. If she wants to and she can.

I don't mind who removes what clothing in hot weather!

Eloethan Mon 23-Jun-14 15:39:06

Yuk!

janerowena Mon 23-Jun-14 14:25:55

I do worry about all that perspiration dripping unfettered onto things like café chairs. I saw one large man that looked as if he had just had a shower and it was trickling from his belly button down his stomach and dripping on the ground. Fascinating to watch, hard not to stare.

thatbags Mon 23-Jun-14 12:28:10

That's good, aka. Happy to oblige.

ninathenana Mon 23-Jun-14 12:26:18

Oh I don't know grumppa my mum's 70ish neighbour used to garden in a bikini top and short shorts. She did put a vest top on as well to walk the dog.
So I suppose that's ok grin

What annoys me is when you see these unpleasantly exposed bodies, the large beer belly especially and they look at the not so slim me in a normal skirt and top as if I'm a freak !

grumppa Mon 23-Jun-14 12:10:27

I agree entirely about garden or beach, rosesareread. But I wonder what the reaction would have been if a grandad had started a thread about women who expose too much of themselves.

Not of course that any Gransnetter would.....

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:18:01

That's why I used the grin emoticon. grin

Aka Mon 23-Jun-14 10:14:56

hmm That explains a lot Bags

thatbags Mon 23-Jun-14 10:12:57

That it was a joke did occur to me but there are some very silly laws out there already and, obviously, I cannot really know how other people are thinking or whether thay are joking when I can't see them or hear their tone of voice. The emoticons are useful to help indicate jokery.

And friendliness smile

Besides, what I said is what I think is important whether others were joking or not.

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:08:15

Although....... hmm

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:07:41

Surely you know that both AKA and myself were joking by saying 'should be illegal?'

rosesarered Mon 23-Jun-14 10:05:38

Yes, but in your own garden or the beach. Not in the shops. Standing next to a fat sweaty beer gut the other day in a cafe, I just thought 'time and place' you know? hmm

berdie Mon 23-Jun-14 09:44:59

I agree with*Lona*, we don't get that much sun in this country, and I know everything goes south as we get older, but cut us some slack ladies, summer doesn't last that long, and it makes us feel young again, to strip the shirt off smile.

kittylester Mon 23-Jun-14 09:43:59

I'm with you Lona grin