My dear Soop. We don't judge the level of each other's problems. If we have a problem and need a shoulder now and again, it's thanks to you for making this safe haven in the kitchen where we will all be there for each other. My best regards to John for a speedy recovery. We know he will be well looked after but, remember to look,after yourself too because you are so worth it
. Love to you both.
Bella I had an incline you were going through a bad patch as we hadn't heard from you. God knows this must be the most difficult and heartbreaking time for you and your DH. PLEASE , come into the kitchen any time, day or night where there will always be one of us here to help in anyway we can by being there for you.
I think a few of us will,identify with the position of having to be strong for everyone. It's a lonely place to be and very draining. Do what you can to look after yourself too. 