So very sorry that you are stuck in this trap Lynb. My feeling is your doctor could be your best support here but I think you should follow Mishap's sound advice.
I stopped work at 50 to help my then pregnant daughter who was very poorly. Also arthritis meant I could not do my job as well as I would like. I did not claim benefits. Fortunately my OH was able to support the two of us but it did necessitate downsizing and major belt tightening. Once again I was lucky because it was possible for me to draw my pension at 60; OH is five years older than me.
These days it is so hard and the Government has made it hugely difficult for everyone. I should like to see the 'Decision Makers' have to cope with the same situations that 'normal people' survive.
Judge Orders Trump To Appear For Deposition Hearing Or.......
Whatever happened to polo necks?


I feel I've done my bit n now I want 'me time' to spend time with my grandkids,read my books n just be me.

