Mercedes Now that I'm retired I love to let things go. I don't force myself to do things unless I really really have to. I do things I enjoy, and care little if they are not appropriate to my age, such as going to a Doctor Who convention, spending hours in the garden playing daft games with my Golden Retriever, or doing a bit of guerrilla gardening in the waste ground behind the railway station.
I see you are Chinese - my daughter-in-law is a Chinese (Cantonese) Australian. I love her - she regards herself as my daughter. She is a very clever girl, a scientist, and she and my son make a point of enjoying life as much as possible.