Baubles I'm in the very happy position of having good friends and close family, BUT there is something very special about the support, encouragement, fun, debate etc. that I get from the GN community. Meeting up with some of you this week really did feel surreal, but also an enormous privilege, so I do understand what you mean. I don't know how 'close' we can be in our virtual world, but I already do feel a particular closeness to many of the people I've met on GN and I hope you do to; closeness isn't so much a geographical feature as an emotional one I think. 