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pammygran Thu 31-May-12 16:59:52

Anyone else sick to death of being told how much alcohol to drink, what to eat & what not, it will be when to go to bed soon(to sleep I mean)..Nanny state give ita rest!

absentgrana Sun 03-Jun-12 15:16:13

That's all very well jings. Advice about taking exercise has led to orthopaedic wards overflowing with middle aged men needing their knees seen to. You can't win. smile

nanaej Sun 03-Jun-12 11:51:45

I think it is the hysterical press that turns the guidance into 'nanny state' statements.
Probably any 'guidance' says something less 'shouty' than the papers would have us believe!! grin

j04 Sat 02-Jun-12 23:18:40

It's not really about nannying though, is it? It's about managing a tight NHS budget. If people make the effort to keep themselves healthy, there will be more money to go round for people who are in need through no fault of their own.

Guidance is good when it comes from the proper authorities. Money is being spent on researching the best foods to eat and the best lifestyle choices to make, and we need to be given the results of that research.

After that, we are free to make our own decisions.

Anagram Sat 02-Jun-12 22:33:38

Same here, goldengirl. We've gone back to full-fat milk and butter - the amount we get through in a week is not going to make much difference. We changed originally because OH was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes, mainly on account of his high cholesterol count - then the opinion was reversed after many tests and his just reducing his sugar intake.

goldengirl Sat 02-Jun-12 22:22:08

I'm back to whole milk and butter in protest! I'm sick of being told what I should or shouldn't eat. I don't drink gallons of the stuff and I don't have much butter, but I do make cakes with butter when formerly I used soft marg. Probably my next blood test will show my cholesterol has shot up - but my parents lived on this stuff to a ripe old age and brought me up on it. It was only reading how bad it was etc in the papers that I changed. I've had it up to here [points to eyebrows emoticon] with do gooders telling me what to do.

Bags Sat 02-Jun-12 19:48:50

gracesmum grin

Mamie Sat 02-Jun-12 19:43:13

It was wooden - was it the same one she used for darning socks? I remember she used to boil her knickers in a big aluminium saucepan too...

gracesmum Sat 02-Jun-12 18:41:13

2 points
1) greatnan if one square of dark chocolate is good for you, how much better is the whole bar?
2) Only 40 minutes for cabbage and sprouts, mamie? You all know that timing for sprouts is place 3 large stones in a pan of cold water, add sprouts, boil until the stones are tender, drain and serve.
and 2 1/2) was the wooden mushroom cooked or raw?

jeni Sat 02-Jun-12 18:29:33

My mil did the same! I'm more healthy!
I rarely eat greens! And when I do I like them soggy!

Mamie Sat 02-Jun-12 18:12:33

Oh yes, my Grandma was like that. Forty minutes for cabbage and sprouts, twenty for beans and peas. She added bicarb to keep it green and then pounded it to death with a wooden mushroom. Yum.

nanaej Sat 02-Jun-12 17:22:47

bags great link!

Re healthy diet: My MiL boiled veg to death. We could arrive at 11a.m. for a 1:00p.m. Sunday lunch to find the carrots and cabbage happily simmering away with the meat loaded with added lard. She ate loads of cakes, bananas & oranges the only fruit she ate regularly (2 x week) and plenty of suet puds, lemon meringue and trifle! She lived to 98 but never smoked or owned a car.

Greatnan Sat 02-Jun-12 17:00:22

Not really, Jess - I don't like sweet things, so I never eat cakes, biscuits, or sweets. I find just one square of chocolate is as much as I can eat. It used to infuriate my daughter, who is a chocoholic, when I bought a bar and it lasted me a week!. The only exception is chocolate brazils, as long as they are made with good chocolate, not cocoa powder.
My weakness is for lovely fresh French bread and for potatoes.

Bags Sat 02-Jun-12 08:44:27

I actually forgot yesterday that I have some caramel cheesecake chocs sent by DD2! I ate one the day they arrived and hid the rest from DD3 wink. Oh well, I can enjoy a couple later today after my hike smile

JessM Sat 02-Jun-12 08:17:07

that is amazingly restrained.

Greatnan Sat 02-Jun-12 08:06:28

Oh, good - I eat one square of very dark chocolate a day - just because I like it. It has to have some orange, mint or nuts in it, otherwise it is too bitter.

JessM Sat 02-Jun-12 06:36:22

Well here is some news to cheer you up from the frontiers of medical research, recently published in the BMJ.
Daily consumption of 100g dark chocolate 100 g can help prevent heart attacks.
The group studied were at a high risk of heart problems. But not a good idea, obviously, for diabetics. And it has to be Dark! And it is probably not twice as good if you have 200g!

Greatnan Sat 02-Jun-12 06:17:56

Ah, how well I remember my dinking years . No,on second thoughts I remember very little of them!
The worst thing was waking up with my contact lenses glued to my eye balls, then there was the migraine, the nausea, the embarrassment.......I am glad I don't need to dink any more!

glammanana Fri 01-Jun-12 23:32:41

I'd like to meet someone who has taken part in one of these surveys because no one has ever asked for my opinion in all of my 60+ yrs.

JessM Fri 01-Jun-12 17:57:39

The term nanny state was probably coined by the Conservative British MP Iain Macleod who referred to "what I like to call the nanny state" in his column "Quoodle" in the December 3, 1965, edition of The Spectator.[2] (source wikipaedia)
There I was thinking that Tory central office had dreamed it up in Blair's time.

Mamie Fri 01-Jun-12 17:39:28

Another little dink won't do me any harm...

jeni Fri 01-Jun-12 17:26:49

I like 'dinking'. Is it more or less harmful than drinking?

kittylester Fri 01-Jun-12 17:06:05

Dinking or drinking - you fall over when you've done too much of either! grin

Mamie Fri 01-Jun-12 16:35:44

Dinking?!? How will I know when I have done too much?
grin

Greatnan Fri 01-Jun-12 15:39:22

The phrase 'too much' is often used to load questions for surveys, e.g. do you think too much TV is bad for children?' By definition, of course, too much of anything is bad!
I had to smile at this example of stating the bl**ding obvious on the TV news yesterday 'There is an increase in alcohol related liver disease, caused by too much dinking'.

Jacey Fri 01-Jun-12 14:15:19

A little of what you like is no bad thing ...any over indulgence can make you poorly ...except too much time on GN!! grin

But , as usually, the research was turned into media grabbing headlines ...rather than taking a measured assessment of their findings. wine wine wine and tomorrow too!!