Thank you ladies. I have managed to 'dip in' once or twice but haven't had the time or inclination to post anything. DD1 has been in and out of hospital and returns today for tests tomorrow. The little ones are a bit confused so they've needed lots of TLC, while the big ones have been so responsible and helpful.
Add to the mix that the winter vomiting bug has attacked - hit me not once but twice! Can't see an end to it just yet but all fingers are crossed that the medics will see a way forward.
(Have done quite a bit of 'catch-up' reading and have to say I am a bit disappointed at the tone of some recent posts.)