grandMattie I am sorry your doctor doesn't think you are "deaf enough" for hearing aids - but unless you are tested he or she cannot possibly really know. I can manage most ordinary conversations without aids, but have lost a lot of the higher frequencies, so I may 'hear' what is said, but not be able to make out all the words, so don't get the meaning. I think it is well worth asking again - or going to a different doctor in your practice and asking. I am not at all worried about the aids being visible - why should we be? There is no shame in being hard of hearing. My DD didn't notice that I was wearing aids! But she and the GC are happy that I have the help to hear better. Am finding there are things I need to learn and get used to - but really worth sticking with it, and not being put off by little things. However old we may be, we can still adapt and learn!