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Should we put OBE on gravestone?

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Penygirl Sat 21-Jan-17 20:30:10

Dad died last year and now that the grave has settled we need to decide on a headstone. Dad was awarded the OBE many years ago but we don't know whether we should include that in the inscription. I'd appreciate your views.

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Penygirl Sun 22-Jan-17 22:25:14

Thanks for the messages of sympathy and all your viewpoints. My sister is not strongly against it, just thought that it might look like showing off. I think I will 'vote' with my brother.
I know exactly what you mean Monica!

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notanan Sun 22-Jan-17 22:35:04

Well, we didn't, but his thoughts on it were made clear before he died.

If it was me I wouldn't want it.. ashes to ashes dust to dust and all that.. it's not something you take with you IMO, all I'ld want on my gravestone would be relationships: wife/mother/grandmother.. that sort of thing. No earnt titles

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Maudie Tue 24-Jan-17 02:40:48

Good for you. You are honouring your father.

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Starlady Wed 25-Jan-17 17:24:15

Yes, why not? He earned it, he was proud of it and he deserves the honor. It's as much a part of the information about him as "beloved father," etc. Also, Cherrytree makes a good point about future generations.

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