I don't knit for small children, but am about to start knitting for my first grandchild - on order 
However, I've knitted over the past few years for my own grown up children and my future SIL - I find that as long as I knit things that are somehow trendy, they do get worn and are popular. And my bunch are happy to handwash 'artisan' wool (costs a fortune but at least I am supporting the British wool industry). This year my son wanted a snood and I knitted him a gorgeous charcoal one and he loves it, he says he feels like one of the knights in Game of Thrones 
MargaretX any chance of a link to the pattern for your favourite gilet please?
I'd love to have a go at knitting one for myself.