Pascal. That’s not my take on it. As far as I am concerned life for many of us was hard, most leaving school to go to work at 15, or 16 if they ‘ stayed on’ to do a couple of gce’s.
No one I knew went to university and when I eventually studied for my degree as a 30 something mature student in the 80 s I was in a tiny cohort of about 6% of the population. Anyone going to a university before then were truly privileged and in an even smaller cohort.
Dont know about not having to jump through hoops to get a mortgage, buying a house wasn’t easy, a 5% or 10% deposit was always required and it took two of us to work and save fir that deposit while renting a damp dismal flat. No bank of mum and dad in those days. Mortgage rates were as high as 17% never under 10% so forgive me if I can’t get too exercised about mortgage interest going up to 4 or 5%… from a low of 2%. From our point of view it would have been a dream.
All our furniture was second hand from friends and family, nothing new, which we painted bright colours and were grateful. We never went out, lived on the cheapest sausages and mince meat and had to watch every penny in our first decade of marriage. After that it was every other penny. %
As for travel our children ( not just mine but many) have travelled the world, places I can only dream of and now probably too old to cope with. Their working lives don’t begin until their mid 20 s a full 10 years after mine did.
I am happy about the opportunities our children have, they are lucky having more access to higher education, travel and living in far flung places, what wonderful experiences, everything that we never had, but am cross about this ridiculous resentment coming from youngsters and others, who should know better, about us supposedly having had it easier than our children.
Speaking for myself and many others too, who started work young our lives have not been easy. We went without a lot to save a deposit and pay the extortionate mortgage. Our houses were not always worth a fortune z( still aren’t) and have obviously increased in value over the last 50 years just as those our children buy now will increase. It doesn’t make us any richer though because we have to live somewhere.